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Most times I don't feel like talking to people who talk to me, I just avoid them. Other times, I'm really talkative. But the majority of times I'm really distant and just want to be on my own.
I too avoid people sort of like that. I think this has to do with fear of rejections. For example you talked to people and your contribution to the conversation made it really fun so the next time you are around people they look up to you with excitement and expectation that you will act exactly the same (at least that's what you think they might think) but this time you do not necessarily feel the same way and maybe you don't want to be funny or you are not so to avoid the awkwardness and the possible disappointment you just flight and avoid the people.
I think this has to do with people that like to do quality work.
I've avoided teachers in classes where I did very well and the reason I didn't talk to teachers was because I wanted them to think of me just by their own formulations made based on the good homework I was submitting. I just feared exposing myself out there because that cost my already established reputation.
normal.
I'm like that.
sometimes teachers who are nice to me, I always try to avoid them because I don't feel like speaking to them.
well yeah! I also possesses that kind of traits and I don't think that is bad, coz the more you create space between the person you love and cared much is the less possibility of being rejected.., sometimes too much attention to ones feelings can cause to much depression that sometimes we didn't know, we've been in very difficult situation (commitment). then in the end we've lost chances to be loved by some more deserving than those person. but it's still bothers me a lot why do I need to avoid people I love/like.., well, this is me I really hate rejections!
You just described exactly how I am. I am very talkative, but my friend told me that I hang out with people in intervals, so there is never too much or too little of me. Do you have a lot of little things that just get on your nerves?
I don't know anyone else who is like this, but I am exactly the same way. I can't explain it - it's just what I'm like.
I get what you mean even though I'm one of the most talkative people any of my friends know! people can get boring if you see them to much or if you didn't have that much in common with them in the 1st place but have wound up being their friends or if you spend to much time around them and the little things you ignore a lot of the time start to bug the hell out of you! :) It's just who you are! x