Is it normal to attract too many girls?

It seems that even though I don't "like" them back, tons of girls become attracted to me or form me as their crush when all I do is be kind to them. I like to befriend the people that don't have many friends, and if they're girls they take that automatically as if I "like" them. I'm just an extremely polite and kind guy that treats girls better than most guys, but all I get back are a bunch of girls that think I like them when I don't! Help me in the comments!

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Comments ( 34 )
  • Short4Words

    So you are befriending lonely girls and are surprised when they are attracted to you?

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    • You nailed it on the head.

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  • Are you gay?

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  • Boobylover

    Are you gay?

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  • Seems like you have a very serious problem on your hands. I am glad I am not you.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    First world problems.

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  • nanawhite

    Wait, you like befriending with people and then complain yourself when girls are getting closer to you ?

    Well stop trying being friends with everyone then. it's no use doing that especially if you don't like them back.

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  • Shroot

    Are you gay?

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  • Flukesy

    I know how you feel this always happens to me

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  • I've got a similar problem but I don't single out lonely girls.

    Pretty much ALL girls get horny for me and want to hook up.
    Even girls I'm just trying to be friends with.

    For example I just moved to a new town and besides family I didn't know anyone not even one person.

    There's a lot of cute girls working at most of the stores and restaurants out here because those are the only jobs. So naturally being a single guy new to town I flirt with them and be friendly talking to them smiling, and having fun.

    Well, to sum it up all of these girls 12-15 of them now want to hook up with me and because I haven't hooked up with them and have been meeting other new girls sometimes they throw me dirty looks at me now when I walk into the store and see them. Well only this one cute but crazy girl does that lol. Most others look very sad and disappointed I haven't hooked up with them yet. They went from super fun bright eyed flirties to sad depressed girls knowing I'm probably not going to ask them out.

    I feel bad but not sure what to do about it.
    I could screw all of them but I really don't want to. I only want the best one for me.

    I also get the feeling there's a shortage of good hot guys in this small town and since I'm a hot city boy I think they really want to eat me up, lol.

    Of course I score with hot city girls too.

    Maybe I'll do the friends with benefits thing with all of them for awhile and see what happens. Maybe I'll figure out which one I really like, or not.

    I've pretty much already narrowed it down to my favorite two hotties : hot little petite blondies with blue eyes, yum!

    Not sure yet but I definitely won't lie to them. They'll know we're just hooking up and I've got other hookups if that's what I decide.

    Anyway.

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  • Karlo

    Its pretty normal. Gay people can even marry in New York now.

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  • ants91shearer

    wen they meet me they see the light rising in their tiny lil eyez, but wen thy get to know me im a time bomb ready to explode , im a mortine spray ready to kill seeing all these bitcez flying around like sand fliez

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I'm always having to beat em off with a stick too even though I'm very flatulent. They don't seem to mind my gas

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    • NotStrangeBird

      You're a very polite gentleman for turning away and not turbo-manuring the ladies, Robbie.

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      • robbieforgotpw

        I'm glad u see the good

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  • Paradiddle

    Honestly, I've gotten this before. There are some girls that don't meet genuine nice guys much and when they do, somehow they think that your kind act means you like them. Its a double-edged sword really since guys don't get attention from girls as easily as girls get attention from guys, they can get attention if they want it. (its a fact, put down your swords) It can also sometimes keep you in the friend area.

    Still, I'd say this is a good problem, the opposite is being an overly cool guy who doesn't care about his girl or worse, an abuser, and end up wasting a girl's time by being controlling or physically/emotionally hurtful. I HATE hearing female friends talk about relationships with these guys to me. I don't think you should change anything because being nice is good but don't go overboard and kindly letting them know you aren't interested is safe enough.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    Be honest. Just say you dont like them that way. You dont wanna lead them on now right. Asap before it gets worse.

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  • Sog

    Cool story bro™

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  • Could be worse. You could be someone that doesn't even act kind to them and still get them interested in you too much.

    Had too many "like" me, then all of a sudden because they like me, try to convince themselves I feel the same way about them, when I barely even know them.

    One even gave me a brand new phone just so I can text her.

    Just tell them you are not interested.

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    • Are you serious? That is completely ridiculous. Your penis must be made out of gold and be at least 15 inches.

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      • Lol. "Gold". All diamond, baby.

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    • PumpkinKate

      It's mostly 'cause you're hot

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      • You sure do know how to appeal to my narcissistic side, Missy.

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        • PumpkinKate

          "Appeal" nothing, I'm being serious! I don't think 100% of the reason they "like" you is purely looks, there's other reasons (such as the 'apathy = increased desire to pursue' theory here) but it's gotta be a big piece of it.

          hehe... 'big piece'

          ...anyway, go on playing modest like you don't know. We all know. Especially Shuggy.

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          • Vanity = boosted.

            Thank you kindly, Kate. I chuckled at the big piece quoted part. Cheeky.

            Well, I know for sure that Shuggy knows, we secretly are in love with eachother. Lol.

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            • shuggy-chan

              no I just know that a treesome is the only way im getting kate so if it take me having a dick saber fight with itduz for get a chance to bip in her Bacta tank, then so be it!!!

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      • shuggy-chan

        you mean angelic

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