Is it normal to assume

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i just met a new guy... however over the past few yrs i have have some bad experiences with relationships... is it normal for me tto assume that this guy is like all the rest..

if 1-5 are all the same, is it normal to assume that # 6 is like 1-5 or do i need to chill out and trust him..

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Based on 44 votes (29 yes)
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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    Let him earn it/you.

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  • neopythagorean
    14 years ago

    Your assumption is normal but that doesn't make it logical. Humans are individual as well as dynamic. If you assume that this guy is a waste of time, them you may as well assume that every male on the planet also fits this description. Why don't you get to know the guy so that you can naturally develop trust for him? Take it slowly and see what happens. No two people are alike and you are possibly missing out on a good thing if you start drawing conclusions about this guy based on past experiences with other guys.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Not all guys are the same. True, there are tons of jerks out there... but nice oens do exist. Some of them are straight too!

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  • leahquestions
    14 years ago

    trust should be earned is what I say-- don't assume- judge by actions, not words, wait and see-- truth reveals itself in time

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      i totally agree. dont trust him yet but dont NOT trust him, jst be neutral with him adn dont get urself madly in love until you have realised whehter he is different or not, or you'll only get hurt :'(

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