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Me and my girlfriend have a good amount of sex. We've done a hell of a lot, but im wondering if by asking this its too much. She always gets mad and refuses, but i still ask. My old girlfriend didnt have a problem with it, i just want to try it with her. So,is it normal?
But no doesn't actually mean no. It means try to ask again until she actually says yes!
Yes it's normal to ask and want to do it. But just because an ex did it that doesn't mean she will want the same. They're 2 different people. Maybe give it a break before you ask again.
Some like it and some don't so why argue. I fucked a woman up the ass once who had just been fucked my two friends so it was very good to be the only one in that hole and she loved it. I liked it a lot too!
Would you like it done to you? Would you mind if she kept insisting on shoving something up your ass? If she doesn't want to then don't force it. She's not obliged to do it if she doesn't want to. No means no.
I know that sometimes woman are shy about it... What I always do is to tell her: "I think it's so sexy to do you from behind... Just the image of your beautiful ass, turns me on"... That why she won't be shy.
i asked my gf if she wanted to do anal after about 3 months we were together... diddnt knew if it was to early or now but thougt : hey why not , asking cant hurt right?
she told me she wanted to try , but wanted to build it up slow , 1st started with 1 finger than 2,3 than penis , and ofc alot of lube hehe , in the begin it hurted a lil bit for her but she wanted to continue , now she actually enjoys it :)
ask her if she wants to try with 1 finger than more etc 1st , also try to give her abit of a massage to get her more relaxe :)
Don't push her to do what she doesn't want to. Maybe ask her what she's worried about an try reassure her that if she tries it an hates it u will stop straight away. Just remember to go real easy on her.