Is it normal to ask questions on here about this problem after sex?

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Maybe only females should read this but guys are welcome. So it's been a week that I had sex with my bf and he used no condom but he didn't cum inside (or at least we think he didn't) but he has cheated just recently with two partners (maybe more idk) and I suddenly started spotting lightly but it's red and after I pee it hurts like hell. What do you think is wrong with me? My period isn't supposed to be until 3 weeks from now. And I didn't take plan b.

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    He would know if he came inside you ..
    Not judging at all but if he's been sleeping with other girls you should definitely be using protection ..
    Spotting could be anything from dryness to the pill to STIs like chlamydia ..
    You should see a doctor ..

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Perfect response!

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Why are you still with the cheating bastard, much less having unprotected sex with his piece of shit ass? Do you actually want to get a disease from some skank-whore he slept with? You need to love yourself more!

    Seriously, just dump his nasty ass! Getting rid of a piece of shit person is like a cross between a NIKE advertisement and a good leg waxing.

    JUST DO IT!
    *rrrip*

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Because I was dumb and stupid. I have now learn it’s best to let him go and never look back but at that moment I wasn’t thinking. He knows how to control me emotionally but I’m slowly fading away from him.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

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    Grrrrrrrr!

    What the hell were you thinking? Was your brain even switched on at all? You _know_ he's had sex with other women recently, and yet you let him put his bare penis inside you?

    Nobody here is going to able to give you a diagnosis of what's causing your spotting and urinary pain. You need to have this checked out by a medic. Possible signs of an STI should not just be ignored in the hope the infection will go away on its own.

    Even before you do that, tell the cheating asshat to fuck off and take his skanky dick with him. Do it by SMS. He deserves nothing more.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      That’s the issue ^ I wasn’t thinking with my mind I was just responding to my heart. But I’m not going back to him ever again. I have given him way too many chances to ever forgive him once more. Sometimes enough is enough. He hurted me emotionally and knew how to control me but after that day + he also threatened me so I knew it was time to say goodbye.

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      • Boojum
        6 years ago

        It sounds like you've made a very sensible decision. Never, ever give a guy who threatens you a second chance. Just make sure you stick to your decision.

        Perhaps you're just a very forgiving and positive person, but maybe he's the sort of guy who knows how to manipulate and push buttons. If so, be prepared for that.

        We all make mistakes, so don't beat yourself up about this. It would be good if you learned from it, though.

        Do get yourself checked out for STIs. A quick Google suggests that spotting and painful urination could be chlamydia. It's very common, far from the worst STI, and it does respond to fairly simple treatment, but it can cause serious, long-term health problems.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Thank you for the positive comment. Honesty I have been on and off with him for the year that I didn’t know any better. I genuinely did love him. But after everything he has made me go thru I can’t lovr him anymore. Few months ago I hated him so much that i told his hoes everything that happen. And so for that he hated me and didn’t want to talk to me again. Until recently things were okay but I just don’t love him anymore. And the fact that I alllow him to hurt me so much shows how weak I am around him :(

          Yeah ima go to the doctor soon.

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  • edreams
    6 years ago

    Get to urgent care Asap you have got something unwanted or expected

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  • Everette
    6 years ago

    Ur screwed u caught something from him

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    • [Old Memory]
      6 years ago

      Most STI's are only a serious health threat if they go untreated. Get to the doctor ASAP and be totally honest about what happened. Pee in the cup, get the exam, take the medication as prescribed and if they recommend a follow up visit, make sure you go, especially if the symptoms haven't subsided.

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