Is it normal to ask my date if she would like to see me naked?

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I have been dating this woman for a few months now and I know she wants to wait till marriage to have sex due to her values.

We were doing a truth or dare last night. She said truth so I asked her if she would like to see me naked? I had not gotten an answer back until late. That she didn't want to answer and that she was going to bed. Did I go to far on asking her that question? She said she didn't say yes or no.

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Based on 26 votes (12 yes)
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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Keep it PG or you might lose her. If she wants to wait you might scare her away by being too forward.

    And as far as the run outside in your boxers in the cold dare, that's not sexual. I've said that as a joke. Be a gentlemen and don't tempt her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Yeah, that is true.

      This has been the best relationship I have had so far in my life, I don't want to lose her. I can't help myself around her at times because she is too cute and sweet; I need to control myself better and she knows it too.

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      • Fall_leaves
        9 years ago

        That's sweet that you're willing to wait for her. I wish I had a guy that would have waited for me lol.

        Hope it works out for you two!

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    You were a jerk. You knew about her values/beliefs and you put her in an uncomfortable situation.
    It's just not nice to do that.

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  • Anonymous200
    9 years ago

    It wasn't fair of you to ask that question. You already knew that she was against having sex before marriage, and yet you pushed her to compromise her values. (Yes, I know it isn't exactly sex, but it's definitely related.)
    She was probably very uncomfortable with your question, which is why she refused to answer. If I was her, I'd be pretty annoyed, but that's just me. Maybe you should apologize and explain that you weren't trying to do anything.
    And to answer your question, she does and she doesn't. She's a sexual being, so she might want to on the surface, but she doesn't want to compromise her beliefs. Its like seeing a piece of cake and wanting to eat it. But you're grossly overweight and you want to be healthy more, so you don't die.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Earlier we had done a dare where she had asked me to run outside in the cold with nothing but my underwear on.

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  • PrincipalMoss
    8 years ago

    I think you should keep it pg, apologize that you meant it as a joke and you are sorry and you love her and make it up to her. But im glad you have her man!

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You went too far.

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