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This girl and I started working together. Our friendship took off. We remain just friends today, haven't even kissed yet. Although, we both have talked about our mutual feelings. Professional at work, very flirtatious in private. I'd like to take it further, I think she does too. She's almost a decade younger than me.
I think that yeah if you want to take it further then how about ask her a normal question. perhaps 'can I take you out to dinner?' and then by the end of the night if you're lucky and you've done everything right you'll know the colour of her underwear without even having to ask ;)
We've gone out several times and have plans to go out again. We've been talking almost every day for a month now. We both admitted to finding each other physically attractive, if that paints a better picture :)
Fairly certain I can without asking lol. I just like to tease at first.
What are you fucking Asian! Who gives a shit what colour her fucking underwear is.
If you're looking for something non-committal or serious don't hookup or date someone you work with, you're pretty much asking for drama later on. Especially with someone who is that much younger than you and likely won't be able to handle a breakup without it mixing with work.
One of you is going to end up having stronger feelings for the other and once the other starts dating other people there's going to be jealousy involved and working together will be unbearable. Find a new job and then you could pursue the relationship, but don't shit where you eat.
Besides that you should know better.