Is it normal to ask a woman to have sex for the first time?

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I get that every relationship is different but in general do adult men actually ask before engaging in intercourse with a woman? I'm still a virgin but I missed the juvenile years of high school where one probably would have asked if they were "ready". I always imagined it as something that just happened like a kiss unless there was something like religion or genuine anxiety involved. It seems immature to ask in my opinion but I don't want to blow it my first time. Examples of how you normally engage would be great.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    I never remember asking.
    Things like that just happen.

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  • Ramit10
    11 years ago

    Pretty much it starts with a kiss then it just keeps going and going. If shes a virgin you ask do you wanna have sex? or lets have sex. this is after you have her naked and totally craving you. If shes not a virgin then break out the condoms or stick it in, if she doesnt want any she will tell you no.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    there's no one right way to do it.

    i know some people want a specific rulebook of "this 'signal' means this" but it doesn't really work that way.

    when it's time... you'll usually know without a doubt that she wants to make love to you

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  • drbishop
    11 years ago

    Ask? Don't ask, you will be able to sense it while kissing her if she is ready and wants you inside of her. After that get playful, kiss her neck and shoulder, nose, ear whatever YOU like. You have to enjoy kissing her, her smell and stuff. You do this for a while and remove her cloths one by one, whilst kissing the areas that has been uncovered. Very briefly, that's it. She will let you know if she doesn't want it, don't get freaked out.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I can't ever remember asking. I've sometimes been a bit "behind the door" as we say in this city, meaning less pushy and forthcoming, but I've still always known.

    I don't know, I mean, do you want actual real-world experiences? I don't mind sharing but I'd have to trawl my memory a bit. I remember first dates very well but first times less well. Probably because I try to be entertaining on a first date, but for a first time, most of my blood isn't in the region of my brain. :)

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