Is it normal to ask a girl why they put x's at the end of msgs

My "friend" she keeps putting x's(kisses) at the end of most text messages she sends me, I don't really know why and was thinking of asking her why she does this.

Would you ask 12
Leave it alone 33
Already understand why 29
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  • sassafrassi

    I think some people do it because they think it s cute or they want to close a message with something. I doubt it has much meaning if she does it all the time

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    • DannyKanes

      Hey! Is that you? :)

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      • chewy

        Danny!!!!

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      • sassafrassi

        I think you have me confused with someone else, but who are you talking about? I'm curious now. :D

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  • flutterhigh

    It symbolizes how many people she's killed.

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    • Anime7

      Or how many boyfriends she's had. She could have 7 exes. 7 evil exes.

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      • dappled

        That thoroughly amused me. :)

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        • Anime7

          Scott Pilgrim for the win.

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    • Subfinmatic

      Lol brilliant, love it.

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  • anti-hero

    Probably just a habit like the lol epidemic. lol x

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  • Ono

    It's a girl thing, like going to the toilet in pairs.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Huh. I guess, if you want to know. The posts I am reading here for explanations are all new to me, I've never done it.

    My tag line, when I had a phone that did that was ~Neuro-Neptunian~.

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    • Subfinmatic

      Mine was "cup of tea and you'll be grand", now it's "Nihil Sine Nefas".

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        What's that mean?

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        • Subfinmatic

          Nihil Sine Nefas means Nothing Without Sin. It's a scanlation company :).

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          • NeuroNeptunian

            What's a scantalation company?
            Sorry, I'd normally be looking this up on google as oppossed to asking you but my computer isn't working properly.

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            • Subfinmatic

              "scanning, translation and editing of comics from a foreign language into a different language"

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  • Corleone

    Why would you ask it? That's just awkward. An 'x' means a kiss. Sometimes that means something, other times it doesn't.

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  • Ibelievethis

    I always put kisses at the end of messages and posts ect. and if I don't get kisses I think that people are pissed with me. xx

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    • Subfinmatic

      I wouldn't do it to all my female friends, not all of my female friends do it to me, which I think is good, wouldn't want confusion in the air. If I get a message with some kisses at the end of it I would reply with some just in case lol. x

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      • Ibelievethis

        I always put kisses whether I'm sending texts to men/women and I am very much a man's lady. x

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  • nobodyspecial

    I doubt it means anything, I've recieved many texts from various girls, it just seems to be that they put it at the end of their messages.

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Yeah, don't think about it too much. Just something chicks do.

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  • iEatZombies_

    Unless she sends other signals, I wouldn't jump to the thought of her liking you. This particular gesture is probably common for her.
    As for why she does it, just something she got hooked on. I had a friend who used to refer to everyone as "hooker". Just a thing.

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  • Avant-Garde

    She might like you or not. If you ask, ask her in a polite way.

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  • Sweetz

    Maybe she digs you but i wont put your hopes up. I might be wrong. A guy friend of mine always does that.

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  • disthing

    I expect it's different country to country, but most girls here in the UK put x's at the end of messages. Usually it means nothing. It's just a habit. Typically:

    Girl to Girl texting - ends with a x
    Girl to Guy texting - ends with a x
    Guy to Girl texting - ends with a x
    Guy to Guy texting - rarely ends with a x because everyone's too afraid of seeming gay or girly (sad).

    I tend to only do it if the person I'm texting also does it.

    So I don't know, but where I'm from, it's kind of standard practice, not necessarily a declaration of love / lust.

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  • Subfinmatic

    I must add, she's a FWB. lol

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    • disthing

      Fit White Bitch? :/

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      • Subfinmatic

        friend with benefit.

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  • Anime7

    Personally, if I'm curious about a behavior I ask the person why they do it. However, being the blunt person that I am, it usually comes out as rude. I would suggest asking her but in a polite way.

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