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Im 21 and i'am ashame to ask this here.. but i got 7 ex-GF passed on me without having sex..im not a gay but..i want to experience sex, but i don't know how to start a conversation that i want to have sex with a girl that i like.. or a girl who wants it to? anyone?it's like i got a nuclear bomb in my chest, i don't know what to do if i got rejected.. .
you just start talking with her in phone about stuff like I miss you, I wanna hold you between my arms .. things girls like. then step by step you tell her why don't you give me a kiss. then when you see her next time hold her hand and kiss her till she become horny and give her a french kiss. be brave man and touch her boobs.
stop worrying so much its just sex really. and plus do u really think a girl wants to date a guy who JUST wants sex. if ur really deseperate to JUST have sex than go get urself a prostitute,(umm gl with that?) cause no girl in the right mind with give u sex right on the spot? wtf?
confidence man confidence.
imma girl so i know what i like:
1) shes obviously only in this relationship (or any) to be told that shes pretty and to feel like shes loved so start with sweet talk
2) lay your hand on her thigh
3) lightly kiss her on the neck and whisper in her ear: common lets go... what do u say?
4) dont just strip her or else she will feel like shes being used
5) have fun and wear condoms ;) lol
Don't be blunt, but give her hints, have some sex talk, etc and see where it goes. DON'T BE PUSHY!! Believe it or not, there are alot of Woman who are very sexual and just want to have fun with a guy.
Sex talk opens up alot of doors and situations, you may be surprised she might want to date you, or just have a " fun buddy". And like the poster said above, confidence gets you everywhere, and confident Men turn Woman on.
ive given up op onestly im 20 and still a virgin i dont see any point in kidding myself im going to hurt myself soon
girls are sexual creatures too ya know, they're not all fucking nuns. just drop hints, get drunk and fuck. simples. you sir are over thinking the situation.
Yeah dude, this happens many times, at the first time when i asked my girlfriend to have sex wid me, i was so damn nervous, but she liked the way i asked and was impressed, so she removed
her top and skirt, she told me to unstrap her bra and move her pantie down, so i started sucking her boobs and it all happened so nicely.....
well.. thanks guys.. your really help a lot..
i realize that i got balls! im nervous so i m acting stupid.. confident + romance
i believe in all of you.. you experience it than me..
i wish i don't get a heartattack.^^
well just lead her into a room make sure u r alone and nobodys around. turn on the tv or something and watch with her. make sure u have physical contact with her so she can feel were u r going. slowy start to caress her arm if she pulls away she is not ready for sex but if she snunggles in closer then she wants to. then take her hand and lead her up to like the closest bed. get in bed and u start kissing first. then start to tug at her shirt a little or slip u hand under her bra(i like this it feels good) if she freezes when u do this stop dont make her continue. but if she tries to pull off UR shirt then its most likely she wants to have sex.
Yes, i think it is normal. If you want to have sex with a girl, then just take it a step at a time. YOu most definately dont want to rush her into anything she doesn't want to do. If she turns you down, then just act like it's hapened before. tell her you understand and that she doesn't have to do anything she does'nt want to. Then see how it goes from there.
Just ask a stranger if she want's to do it,
(instead of someone you already like)
that way getting rejected won't be so bad :D
If u have had girlfriend I don't understand why u don't have sex have u had sex be4? I'm a girl and my fav move is when I snuggle with a guy and we are watching a movie nd everynow and then his hand gets lower then he starts feeling me up then were so horny we have sex there doesn't or u no other stuff... It doesn't have to be a drama the first time u have sex with someone new it can b a little bit awkward but after that it's great u just have to get over that hump then the real fun begins! U don't have to have sex the first time! Theres other stuff to.. Slip your hand up her skirt while watching a movie...... Lol
I do no what u mean tho! :)
just walk up to a scantily clad girl and say "Fuck me"
she probably will.