Is it normal to appear confident but be insecure on the inside.....

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Ive started to notice that i come across like a confident guy. For example i have recently started a training course and have made freinds quickly and even caught the attention of a pretty girl who sits opposite me :D.

I will crack jokes and socalise with people i dont know very well yet on the inside i am awkward, full of doubt and insecure about myself.

Its kinda odd, if i like a girl i will confidently think to myself "i will make her mine" etc, normaly i can get lucky with the girls i like but the entire time i will be thinking "what is she doing with me" "im ugly" "she cant think im funny" etc

So yea, im confident but insecure at the same time.

It often makes me wonder if even the most loud mouth full of themselve people feel the same way.....

Normal??

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  • BlueJeans92
    11 years ago

    I think we all do this to some degree. I know I do.

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  • MoeLester
    11 years ago

    Completely normal

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  • Store210
    11 years ago

    If you meet me you would`t think i have the most friends, but at the same time you would think i have no sosial problems, its acualy the opposite, i vury if they think i am wierd, lame or anything like that, i am one of the most insecure on the inside, and i only show it to my closest friends

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  • blaster
    11 years ago

    Well at least you cover it well. That's good I reckon , nothin worse than feeling like a fool from coming across like one - not that I'd know about that ha ha !
    Nahh you'd be amazed , I notice things , stuff , people , and yuo see insecurities in even the toughest of people sometimes. It always surprises me .

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