Is it normal to always worry about how other people would feel?

I always feel bad when I don't do something for someone. I feel bad when people ask me to go places with them, and I don't wanna go. I always worry about how other people would feel.

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Based on 51 votes (43 yes)
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  • ms_funion

    I used to feel this way years ago. eventually I learned how balance my wants and needs between those of friends and fam. you'll realize that sometimes, you have to put yourself first - and that's an okay thing to do every once in awhile.

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  • phuckejiu

    That's not normal yet is wrong with you?

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  • RentingEmotion

    Be yourself, you can't please everyone.

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  • russellnb

    I understand but you can do so many things and no more. You can also say no in a nice way.

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  • soscience

    Dear Friend,

    I absolutely understand how u feel. You are a person who try to please others, you're worried if one of them might not happy with you , you're scared to reject ppl.

    I used to feel this way when i was a lot younger. But for me , as time past , i grew up , and things are not same anymore. Don't take it too hard ok ? it is just reflecting how we react to others only.

    find some body u can trust and u can tell them about how u feel, don't keep it into ur self, :-) find a mentor yea :)

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  • xino00

    if you feel for them why don't you do it?

    wtf are you talking about feeling if you can't do something for someone.

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