Is it normal to always want other girls when in a relationship?

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I feel like a dick for saying this, but whenever I get into a relationship with a girl, I start to feel more attracted to other girls instantly. I don't mean to though. I've never cheated before, but I always feel tempted to once I'm in a relationship.

When I'm not in a relationship, I'm not really attracted to anyone. It's just once I get into a relationship.

Is this normal?

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Based on 101 votes (63 yes)
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  • telly34
    11 years ago

    Robert J. Ringer calls this "The Better Deal Theory", and I have noticed that I suffered from this too. Once I realized I could "get" someone, I was always wondering how I could do better. I really don't like this aspect of human nature as it makes for a very cruel world, but I myself am guilty of it as well.

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  • Brice1
    10 years ago

    Duh it's normal every man of any specie's desire to mate with many women

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  • hendichess
    10 years ago

    The grass is always greener on the other side

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    • dodongos
      10 years ago

      Truth.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Maybe you are feelings trapped in the relationship or you are getting bored with it. This will sometimes happen. Try and find a way to spice things up.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I don't think it's me getting bored. I never really get bored of anything in life anyways. But in this case, what I mean is that the moment I get into a relationship, I start to feel attracted to other girls.

      Perhaps I just start to feel cocky and confident in myself with females.
      If so, the I suck.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing
        11 years ago

        It probobly as I just said you get bored or feel trapped. Some people get bored in a relationship since they can not fool around so freely as they did. So they long for something more. You might not realize it but it sounds like the case. This happens to people sometimes.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Hmm. Maybe so...

          Well thank you for your input :)

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  • Coolieo
    11 years ago

    why do you think you do this?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Perhaps it's just exciting to me or something...

      Or perhaps I'm just a piggish man who gets bored of girls quickly...

      Or maybe I just start to feel cocky...

      I don't know :s

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      • Coolieo
        11 years ago

        Erk..hm.. it's probably because you feel like that you need to compare your girlfriend to other girls like if they're better? I dunno.. just stay faithful to her, you don't want to break her heart! ;p

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