Is it normal to always think that he is cheating on me?

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I'm 18. And he is 21. And its been 7months for our relationship. None of us are cheating as far as I know. But I always fear that he wil cheat on me. Is it normal to feel that way when u love a person? He says he isn't a guy like that. He is always serious in relationships as in no cheating. He is loving and takes me everywhere. But he asks me all the time "whose the guy your cheating with?" Because he is always busy with work and he thinks I cheat on him because we don't talk much. And he knows how horny I get. :/ so he thinks I'm cheating and I think he is too. But I love him. And I don't wanna lose him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    No it really isn't normal. Just sounds really unhealthy and a complete break down of trust between the two of you.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    "He is loving and takes me everywhere" but then "he is always busy with work".
    "None of us are cheating as far as I know" but then "he thinks I'm cheating and I think he is too".
    This isn't a loving relationship, it two completely insane people at odds with each other. You haven't a clue what love is, and apparently he doesn't either.
    Honey, you never had him, any more than he has you. At most you are a pair of lousy fuck buddies.

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    • Aries
      8 years ago

      very good insight , I won't even attempt to advise her as I can not say it any better than you already have friend .

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  • pyrofox
    8 years ago

    I say talk to him stop the clock and spend an hour or two or however long and talk about you emotions before it gets too corrosive for ether of you too

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    This doesn't sound much like a relationship at all to be honest .

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