Is it normal to always lose sexual interest in every boyfriend?
My problem is this: I find a guy I like and I become insanely attracted to him. The sexual chemistry will be off the charts ....that is, whenever the relationship is not a relationship yet. Or is just in the beginning stages of being a relationship. Then, like clock-work, with every major relationship I've ever been in I begin to become almost repulsed by the thought of being intimate with the person. I become turned off by them, even when I still like them as people.
To make this as clear as possible I'm going to try to detail this more. It's almost like I start to feel like I have the upperhand and that's what the turn-off is, maybe? I feel like once I know someone too well, sex turns to a weird, emotional intimacy that makes me squeemish. Is this normal? Has anyone else ever felt this ever - give me insight. Will it ever change? Have I just not met the right guy yet? Because I've been with some guys that I absolutely adored for the first 4-5 months, and guys that I WANT to be with in every other way except for this area. Right now I have an old flame that I'm still very close with whom I'm in love with. I'd love to marry him - but I a can't imagine sleeping with him anymore.