Is it normal to always feel unattractive

I'm a girl and I think the same thing

Dude, most people feel this way. Just don't listen to what the stupid ass media tells you about being an attractive man. I used to worry about my appearance all the time (I'm a chick). I'm skinny, have a huge head, bug eyes, and dark skin and hair. But you know what? The older I got, the less and less I worried about it. I learned to accentuate my awesome features, and say "who gives a &%*$ about my "bad" ones. I'm sure there are girls who find you attractive. The ones who don't - %&$# 'em.

I've struggled with this and low self esteem my whole life and I'm only 17 but every night I try to go to bed and say three good things about how I look it helps

I've struggled with this most of my life. Self confidence and being happy with yourself is the key. After all if you can't be happy with yourself then how can anyone else be happy with you? Just be confident and think positive on life, and one day that special someone will come along!

seems to me that there arealot of ppl with low self esteem, low confidence, even a low self concept, just cos there are alot of us, does that make it normal? i hope that isnt normal, or that is rather sa to think of

Tips for you
1. dont be so hard on yourself (yes i know you are so dont deny it)
2. Look at yourself in the mirror and compliment yourself (and mean it goddammit)
3. do basic stuff like eat healthy, exercise, you know all that basic stuff!
4. embrace yourself, accept yourself,

Remember that true happiness comes from within. You are the only one that can determine your own happiness.

Happy people are attractive and people like to be around happy people :)

Self Confidence. You need to love yourself and stop paying so much attention to what you THINK. Others are thinking about you. Work on that. It's easy.

Maybe because low self-esteem is a turn off.

I have started to wonder recently if I am not very attractive. I know I am not ass-ugly, but I have never really been one to attract the eyes of the ladies. I know that I have a good heart though, and a likable personality; I know that someday I will get a girl that will be very lucky to have me as her man and she will truly appreciate me for who I am. My advice to you would be to find a girl like this.

Well welcome to the club, we got free cofee.

I feel the same as you ( about me obviously )
And even tho my friends tell me otherwise i just " know " they cannot be serious, when i look In the mirror i dont see how they even Can say i am attractive..

Me too! High5^
We should be bestfriends forever.