Is it normal to always feel ugly?

I've never felt beautiful, ever. My boyfriend says I'm beautiful, but I never believe him. I always think he's just saying it to make me feel better.
I've been made fun of my whole life. People have always called me ugly, and at some point I realized they were all right.
I hate this feeling, but I don't see a reason as to why I should think differently of myself.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • emilydoll

    You are not ugly. Don't ever think that.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    who's ugly and are they okay that you are feeling them all the time?

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  • pipinya

    Do NOT listen to what other people say.
    They're just shallow, and probably just jealous that haven't been able to come to terms with themselves just yet
    But you should be able to! Spend awhile thinking about who you are, taking into account everything that's happened to you (personal reflection is handy at a time like this), and Make yourself pretty in YOUR eyes, cause that's all that matters (your boyfriend already thinks that! (Y) )
    On another note, you're probably as beautiful as he says!

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  • PuppyPower

    You're important to lots of people in your life, and, look! You have a boyfriend! :)

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  • chonchburger11

    Omg I always feel ugly but on rare occasions I feel soooo pretty so it's confusing..I guess it depends on how I'm dressed and my hair but even still I won't take pictures because I know I will be embarrassed and ugly in the pics

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  • SweetSherry

    Why don't you upload a pic unto your profile I'd be happy to tell you if you're ugly or not tee hee hahaha

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  • y2b4u3d

    you are what U R but the only way that's mater is how you live this deam life and make you 24h of day full of happiness so why you just forgot everything and go away from those bastards who say you are an ugly person and live your live baby get an HBO!

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  • nickb69

    Some people in life are blessed with good looks but that does not mean they are happy. We are think at some point in out life that we are not attractive.

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your boyfriend thinks you are beautiful and thats all that matters.

    Thinking you are ugly is something inside you and not whats on the surface. I am sure it is very difficult for you and my heart goes out to you. Facial features do not make you a beautiful person, its whats inside that really counts. You have to believe in yourself and accept what you are born with.

    Believe in and accept yourself for who you are and you will feel beautiful. Sort the inside and beauty will shine through.

    Take care x

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  • koifish

    I agree w everyone elsea comments. I bet you are beautiful.

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  • imkookoo

    I know it's not particularly an easy thing to do, but you have to stop thinking you're ugly. If you think ugly, you'll act ugly. A great personality goes a long way. You have a bf, which leads me to believe you don't exactly look like the wcked witch of the west. :) just trust him; he'll appreciate your trust. If one person finds you attractive, there will be a lot more that finds you attractive as well. There's a lot of ppl in this world.

    Kids can be very mean to people they sniff out as weak. And the easiest insult is to call someone ugly. Most of the time, it isn't true. They just say those things to make themselves feel better or to feel like they have power.

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    • MewMew

      Thank you, I really appreciate your answer. :]

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  • birchboy

    very normal. It's tough living in a society where we are told we have to look a certain way. My advice; turn off the tv.

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  • crazykittens

    Hm, I personally have never been called ugly. I also personally believe that only 1% of the entire world is actually filled with ugly people. Why? Because ugly is hideous and if someone is that ugly, obviously people will stop, open their jaw and stare.. I've only seen maybe one or two people like that in my entire life. I bet the worst possibility is that you're average and average isn't ugly.

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    • HugeDong87

      You should go to England. Some of the people there are OMG ugly

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  • viper22lr

    I hate when ugly people talk! JUST GET INTO A HOLE!!!! lol jk

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  • HugeDong87

    People are bastards. Just ignore them. If your BF did'nt think you were he'd probably be off boning some other chick.

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