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So I have lots of friends. However I don't feel like I have a best friend. I feel like all my friends have 1 friend who is ahead of me and I am number 2 to all of them which makes me feel alone,..
Look at it this way , you are in the top 5.
Sometimes even having the most important role. Like the vice president or a CEO.
I feel that way a lot of times too. I'm never the first choice.
I actually thought I had a best friend once. She lives 2 hours away from me now, but when we were neighbors we did everything together, always called one another a best friend, always was there for each other, always hung out, families were tight and everything. We went way back. I knew her and she knew me as far back as when we both were in diapers. She was like another sister of mine.
One day she got really distant, and this one girl from her new school became her new "best friend". Long story short, I got thrown away for a cocaine addict. And the girl who I once called a best friend, who used to call me her best friend, the girl who was inseperable from me and my life, the one who was gonna be my roommate when we went off to college, is not the same girl that I once knew.
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It's normal, a lot of people are treated like number 2. Always the quickest to be flushed down.
Friends are friends. Period. You dont need to have a bestie they're still your friends!
don't worry about that. you can be the closest to your mate. friends are friends you are lucky to have lots of them