Is it normal to agree to cut arguements short?

I do not like to argue with people. When people try and argue a point with me (even if they are wrong, I am right), I just simply agree with them. The moment they open their mouth and come out with something, I just go "Okay." I don't do it to be cocky. Sometimes I'll sweeten it up and say, "Oh really? That's cool." All just to cut the arguement/debate short, but still sounding as kind as possible about it. I hardly defend myself at all. I've had a few people tell me it's annoying. But I think the arguement in itself is even MORE annoying.

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  • Meditated

    Eckhart tolle has given some talksabout this topic

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  • goatsandsheeps

    You should have a say on things. Cutting arguments short is basically uconventional, atleast for me since it demonstrates that you dont give a shit on what he thinks/says.. which basically is a form of contempt. I don't know how old/young you are but atleast have a few response on what the other party is saying. Sometimes, people who sticks to "Okay" or "Fine" when the other starts on asking him few questions tend to lose their communication skills as they grow older. Be opinionated, exert an effort to appreciate other people's thoughts. Arguing doesn't literally mean fighting, it merely signifies that you have your own mind-set/view on the matter

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  • simba1

    Arguing only takes place when there is a lack of communication. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and sometimes, neither is right or wrong. Just different. In situations where there is a definate right or wrong, the best way to deal with it is : You have your say, they have their say, and if you cant reach an agreement, just agree to disagree. Just out of interest, are you a cancerian, as my husband is, and he hates confrontation, and left to his own devices, would deal with things exactly the way you do.

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  • kellstar

    *argueing

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  • kellstar

    I used to b like this but I usually say what I think now although I too hate argueinf and fighting

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