Is it normal to admire younger boys?

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Hi Everyone

I'm a 19 year old boy, I'm bisexual.
Sometimes I feel attracted to boys younger that me e.g. "13-14". Sometimes even a little younger, I can't help these thoughts and I worry that I may be a pedofile and I hate it..
When I was about 7 I was "touched" by my older brother
Now i feel as though a part of is attracted to younger boys and I cannot get rid of it or feel part of normal society.
Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I think this is a troll post buuuuuuuut incase you are serious.

    Sadly, some people are pedophiles. You might not be and just like the idea of someone younger than you, but being a younger age yourself might make you seem like a pedophile when in reality, when you're 30 you'll prefer 25 year olds or whatever.

    That said, don't act on these attractions. They're too young at 13 and 14 and that would dwell in to pedophilia.

    If you are a pedophile then I'd suggest you see a professional. As I said, sadly, some people are pedophiles even when they don't want to and wouldn't ever act on their attractions because they know it's morally wrong.

    People say you can't choose who you're attracted to but you can choose who you do with that attraction, and in this case you have to push it down and not take part in it.

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    • ShyBoy420
      8 years ago

      Thanks, I really love this reply :)
      And no, I would never act on it again as it haunts me everyday of my life.
      I just love to admire the beauty of younger boys :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        If it's not sexual attraction then you should be fine. If you're just attracted to them visually then although I wouldn't say it's normal, I wouldn't say it's harmful unless people misinterpret that as sexual attraction.

        If it is sexual attraction then I can only feel sorry for you because I couldn't imagine what it would be like being sexually attracted to a group that you personally know it's wrong to be attracted to.

        But yeah, try find a professional and maybe they could help. :)

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      • wistfulmaiden
        8 years ago

        You should read Death in Venice. Or watch the film.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    I touched myself inappropriately and it was very nice

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    • ShyBoy420
      8 years ago

      I do that almost everyday "-"

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      • sexysonofsam
        8 years ago

        I do do it every day and still do grow tired of it!

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        • ShyBoy420
          8 years ago

          But everytime it's amazing.

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          • sexysonofsam
            8 years ago

            yep, I sometimes first sit on my hand for a while so that it feels like a strangers hand touching me...its amazing

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    You can look but DON'T touch. Otherwise you'll be getting touched by some big black lifer in prison. Touched deep into your rectum with a footlong wiener.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Keep your hands to yourself, and see a therapist to work through your issues.

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  • FlameDragoon
    8 years ago

    Well I kinda feel that way too, not towards the age range 13-14 more around 15 to 17 with me being 21. I honestly can't explain why I just sometimes wish I could admire their bodies y'know? see them nude. But I don't think I would ever act on it.

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  • musicwire4
    8 years ago

    Touch him again

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  • ☆IAmARealAmerican!☆
    8 years ago

    Go back to France ya Commie.

    #BootsToAsses

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    This is what they call "Lust gone wild"

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    if it was you wouldn't get arrested for it.

    Not judging just saying.

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  • musicwire4
    8 years ago

    Its fine love is love and age is just a number

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    • ShyBoy420
      8 years ago

      But is it fine to be turned on by a 14year old boy in a Speedo? Being 19?

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      • musicwire4
        8 years ago

        Yes

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    • ShyBoy420
      8 years ago

      Even if I'm 19? So Is it okay to be turned on by a 13/14 year old in a Speedo?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    am I messed up

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  • Crow
    8 years ago

    You touched a seven year old? See a professional.

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