Is it normal to act like you like somebody?

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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs. He has a 5 yr old son by a ex gf. My problem is i cant stand the girl, in some odd way she is apart of my life because of him. The thing is she knows i couldnt stand her before,because of all the drama she caused between me and my b.f yrs ago. ALSO she was into drugs SO bad to were she lost full custody of the son to cps. which now he is with us. the problem is she trys SO hard to be nice to me, and to be civil. the thing is i cant be rude to someone when they "kill me with kindness" she even requested me on F.B to idk either be nosey or nice. I dont know what to do or feel because im pretty much faking myself to be her friend, when i dont like her. She always trys to be nice on my F.B n all "liking" my status etc. sucking ass.. dont get me wrong,ive tried to tell myself to let the past go. but it just comes back up again/or she will do something to make me irritated.. im just afraid that she will cause problems again with me n my b.f so i dont ever even like her talking to him. even though she is with another guy for couple yrs now n preg at this time.shes lost my trust since it happened more than once before.what should i do.. i just cant forgive her completely for all she has done in the past but she trys to be my friend, then i try too but im faking myself..how should i act? should i be her friend? keep faking it? or am i just not giving the girl a chance? or do u think shes faking me?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Evil it's pure evil go and boil an egg

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  • Adallynn726
    12 years ago

    if you are forced to deal with someone like her forever, would you try to let things go? Yall all have good points!

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    Cut her off. You have no obligation to be her friend at all. Be careful around someone you already don't trust.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    It's good to fill him in on what yours feeling so it won't be a surprise later.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    You don't have to be her friend. You don't trust her, well, it seems like you can't bring yourself to it, you feel she is insidious. If you feel in your gut that she is up to no good, then that's ok. Flattery obviously doesn't work with you. Just avoid her likes n msgs if she wants to kiss your ass let her. Maybe she just wants what's best for her child! Just let her do whatever and be kind, you don't have to shop with her or anything. If she tries to get too close as in starts to hang out in your house etc I would draw the line. You make tge boundaries just be as mature as possible in how you make it known. I might also talk to your boyfriend about this if you feel like it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yes, I do too all the time. I can never say no to anybody who is nice to me even though I might hate him or her a lot. But I dont think you have to be her friend if you dont feel comfortable with her.

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