Is it normal to act like that

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Well I met my husband 3 years ago and we get married , we r madly in love and my husband proposed to me after one week of dating...he was divorced when we started dating and he has 2 little angels...his relationship with his ex wife was good till he married me , she started to treat him badly and having fights with him every time when he visits his kids...then when she knew that I came with him to visit his family and he introduced me to his friends, she had a big fight with him in front of kids and she kicked him out and since Xmas he didn't see his Kids, he tried to convince her , he sent her mails and called her million times but she doesn't reply..,I tried to be nice to her and be like friends for the sake of the kids but she doesn't want to see me...is it normal?

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49% Normal
Based on 59 votes (29 yes)
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  • Starla_Dear
    12 years ago

    If you came into the picture *after* the divorce, then she needs to get over it. I would be upset if my ex brought a woman around knowing that he cheated on me with her. Other than that, the new gf would have to be a horrible person. IMHO, she's very jealous.

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  • JackiePygmyGoat
    12 years ago

    If she hasn't dated anyone else in the three years they've been divorced there's a good chance that she's been clinging to a hope that they might reconcile. If she has dated anyone else then she's just being a bitch.

    Also consider the possibility that her problem is not so much with him finding a new wife, but with him deciding to marry a new woman after one week of dating and then expecting her to just hand her kids off to spend time with this new stepmom who is a stranger. As a mother it must be hard to just blindly trust her ex husband's judgement when handing her kids over to visit with someone that not only does she not know, but that even he doesn't know very well.

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  • notexactlynormal
    12 years ago

    I think shes still in love with your husband, and feels like you stole him away. Talk to your husband about this, and try to avoid her jic she tried to off you or sth.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Ummm... choke that bitch?

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Jealousy? She sounds like a nut job.
    Perhaps it's because he's moved on, but she hasn't? I doubt there's much you can do except support your husband. Make sure he can continue to contact her, and perhaps visit the kids without you. Hopefully she'll either calm down or the kids will move out (you didn't mention ages) and you can see them on terms other than the mum's.

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  • otisslang
    12 years ago

    time heals everything. not a week

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    A*

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Get an lawyer

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  • night
    12 years ago

    Ya I met him after 3 years of divorce...and I really want to get well with her for kids and I really don't know why she's acting like that...my husband suffers Bcoz he is not able to see his kids...

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