Is it normal to... well it's complicated.

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Okay. So there's me, my best girl friend, and my best guy friend. I have been hopelessly torn for ages. I am completely in love with my best girl friend, and I know she has feelings for me. But she is utterly infatuated with my best gut friend. He admitted that he ALSO likes her a few months ago. But he's broken her heart countless times, even though they've never actually dated. But my best girl friend just can't get over him. I've always been there for her, and we have such a connection. I just don't want her to get hurt again. I couldn't take it. Any help of advice would be great. ._.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm writing this if you are a girl. So, first of all, communication is key to a good relationship. In my opinion, girls are much better than guys. For one, we Are more understanding and sensitive. Also, if you two are together, your best friends! And it's a totall plus that she has feelings for you. I really hope you are a girl! Omg if I were you I would go with the girl. A guy, go with the girl.

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  • .Linkin.Park.
    12 years ago

    I know exactly what you're going through. My friend went through this. Him and his best friend both liked this girl. And she liked both of them. And yeah, same story. But you should really just talk to one, or both, of them about it. Sitting on the sidelines isn't going to help.

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago

    I dont want to be a downer, but I would say your friend knows she can rely on you for comfort..and she loves you probably as more of a friend at the moment and seeks a relationship with your guy friend. Hes unattainable and to her unpredictable given his track record. You may have to be super patient waiting for her to come to her senses. Or just act on your feelings.

    You have to come back from the friend zone.

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  • Kujaku13
    13 years ago

    That won't work. We were best friends way before I started liking her. Plus I already know she has feelings for me. I just don't know what I should do because she can't get over my other best friend.

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    Never be best friends with a girl you are in love with. It's a big emotional investment that rarely pans out. And if you know she has feelings for you, then ask her the hell out. If she says no, then she doesn't have feelings with you and you should keep her at arm's length. Very simple situation.

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  • CuriousPenis
    13 years ago

    haha. i understand what your going through. my advice, is too wait it out. if you like her, go get her. do what your gut sais brother!

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  • Kujaku13
    13 years ago

    This is the author. Just because I forgot to include this tidbit of info, I'm a guy.

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