Is it normal to...want my ex back?

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Okay so this is a long story, sorry the title isn't very descriptive. So I dated this guy about a year ago, and we were together for a while. We did lots of things together and it was one of those relationships where we would actually talk nothing was about sex. I messed him around and then we took a break and he started going for my friend. We got back together but I left him, and that happened 2 times. Since then we haven't been as close and everytime we talk we fight. Ever since then I've loved him. I can't stop thinkif about him I've told him this but he doesn't exactly listen. It's been two years and he recently got a girlfriend who's like half hos age and she's not even pretty. All I want is him I don't know what to so. Like, in in love with him, and we have never had sex.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    Well that's just too bad then huh?

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    Do both of yourselves a favor and never try to speak to him again. There's a reason they are your X.

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    • Bumblebee2013
      10 years ago

      I have to completely agree with you! You broke up for a reason, why would you think it would work again. Find someone else and it might actually work! P.s sorry I didn't mean to aim that at YOU :)

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    You never had sex? Then he doesn't qualify as your ex. You had a friendship.

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    • Bumblebee2013
      10 years ago

      I giggled to that

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  • Frances
    10 years ago

    Thanks guys :) I just deleted the messages and things that remind me of him :) I don't need therapy I'm fine :) but thanks !!

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    It's over, so move on. You're making yourself miserable pining away for this person who's clearly unavailable. This is just a guess but it sounds like you have fear of intimacy issues and would be better off forgetting about him and romantic relationships on a whole for now. What you probably need most is to work with a therapist who does cognitive behavioral therapy specifically DBT or STEPPS also you could improve your life greatly by attend twelve step meetings for Codependency. Check out this website http://www.coda.org/

    You'll be a much happier person once you realize that you are POWERLESS over your ex and his feelings or lack thereof for you!

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