Is it normal to....hhh it's too long to explain in the subject so..

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So..I had two big relationships in my life,one was five years ago (lasted for two),and I had one till a month ago,when I broke up with my girlfriend after two long years. The story goes on...I broke up with her year earlier couse my best friend died and I was a mess and...some pretty complicated stuff. Then I begged her to come back to me and she did. It was all god till..summer of this year when my brother broke up with her girlfriend and I found myself as only guy in relationship among all of my friends. And I was actually stupid enough to broke up with her again,an as you my know, I begged her to go back... It's interesting that in both two breakup's I waited for one month till i contacted her.. Than she said to me that she has to think about it..in some cold,cold way..two weeks later she says to me-I love you,but I don't wont to be in a relationship right now. I realized that I really am old enough to settle down and stop being stupid and dumping my girlfriend when something around me changes but.. So my question is: Is it normal to be madly in love in the person you dumped two times? Actually, Is it normal to realize how much you love someone two times when you don't have her,and forget about it when you have her?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You dumped her twice for pretty lame reasons. What do you expect? Your type of love isn't love and its not very deep - its pretty fickle, really. You couldn't share your grief - dump her. You followed the single boys - dump her. You are not ready t be in a relationship. You can't seriously expect someone to hang in with you as you blow hot & cold.

    Move on & learn.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    bake a cake...always a good way to settle things down..make it a chocolate one..

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    • flaming
      14 years ago

      that's a real good idea,but I don't bake...well,it's never to late to learn I guess,..or buy a chocolate cake.

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        look. the best thing (talking as a girl here) that i know for sure is to show her this post. if she reads this and the fact that you worried so much over it you posted it on the internet, and i can sense some really strong feelings here, then she will realise that youre not so much of a jerk. srsly. jt like make some crappy email adress and email her (pretend its not you) and say this is John (or watever ur name is) . she will be so flatterd she will feel so happy she really will. i know because if that happened to me i would feel so so so so so happy!!!! go for it mannn!!!!! x

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        • [Old Memory]
          14 years ago

          i meant email her the link (; and pretend its not you. lol be some anonymous man!

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    You are behaving like a pussy... Grow a pair and stop dumping her because of stupid reasons.

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  • cccaitlin0787
    14 years ago

    I would never go back to someone who told be they loved me and broke up with me because all their friends were single.. How immature are you?

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