Is it normal to...

It was a fantasy of mine for many years to watch my wife with another man.I found myself aroused watching her dancing with another man. Knowing that they were most likely rubbing their parts against each other and with certain men she liked to dance really close.

She had great legs and liked to show them so she wore short skirts and men were always looking at her and that aroused me. I must tell you at this point I am bi and had a man I was making out with . He was bi but much prefered woman myself to be honest I prefered men . So I thought he would be a perfect candidate.He was a confirmed bachelor and had no intentions of ever marrying and he was also very shy and kept to himself as a result did not get many woman.

I started showing him photos of my wife while I would preform oral he would look at them and tell me what he woulds like to do to her. That drove me wild.He would come to the house for dinners or to watch sports with me so my wife knew and liked him.I started taling to her when we would have sex about having a 3 way with another man at first she laughed about it and then she said youa are really serrious and I said yes it would really turn me on.

We invited him over one night and had a few drinks and before you knew it we were getting it on all three of us. At first she was shy and held back a bit but before you knew it she was into it like she had been doing it for years . WE made the rules before we started and stuck to them . This was simply 3 adalts pleasing each other and that is it. It worked out very well and the three of us have been doing it for 8 years now . We even went on some vacations together . She does not know that he and I are bi. So If I have any advice to anyone it is to find the right guy and make strict rules . If he steps over the line cut him off. By that I mean if starts calling your wife when you are not there tell him or better get your wife to tell him to F..k off. It is normal and can be very rewarding it is for us.