Is it normal tht i still have not bonded wwith my 7 yr old

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I had identical triplet boys in 2004. 10 months later I had my daughter.with the strain of no sleep living with very little money and me and their dad being it no supports I failed to bond with my daughter.I was home on my own with four children under 1 etc for.much of the tome. Our life has greatly improved bit now I realize I don't.have the same closeness.with my youngest I work.everyday to create this and would appreiciate any advise out there. I love her I just don't.feel the same.intense love as with my sons.please no OMG I can't.believe u don't.love ur child..saw tht in other posts its a feeling not a choose anyone.seeking help is committed to there child thank u...

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  • Pure_Soul
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe if you learn English, you and your daughter could communicate better.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Some parents don't form a bond with their children under ideal circumstances. Keep at it but you should seek advice somewhere else as this site is full of spelling nazis animal fanciers and serial masturbaters.

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  • DannysUsername
    11 years ago

    I have a twin and a younger brother, and we really didn't grow up with much, ourselves. It was a struggle for my parents, and I can definatly say that my twin and I were given more attention than our younger brother. I'd say just try to find time to spend with all of your kids. I know it's not easy. Being a parent doesn't come with manual, but your concern about not feeling like you've bonded with her definatly shows me that you care about her and that you love her. All you can do is your best.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I'm slightly confused...

    I guess it's normal.

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