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This is a question for everyone that's come out of the closet already..
I was wondering if it's normal that after coming out of the closet to my mother my gay thoughts kind of stopped..
Not for real long but there was an abrupt halt to pretty much all thought and brain function has this happened with anyone else??
Not really an answer but good onya for coming out, not alot of people can do that.
I bet your mom and everyone else's mom/dad could come out of the closet with things more dramatic than you being gay.
Don't think that you are the only one with something in the closet...everyone has some goodies in the closet.
The point is...you have no more duty to come out of the closet with your goodies than anyone else has a duty to come out of the closet with theirs. Its your business, you owe no one a explanation.
it just mainly is a stress reliever which probably gives ur brain a break
It was a definite stress reliever for me....it didn't stop me from having "gay thoughts" though. That's just who I am but I wasn't constantly stressing over being a lesbian anymore. A secret, even if it's your own, can keep you in turmoil.
I'm not gay and so have not had to come out. Interested in the responses you get, though. My gay friends of either gender were more bothered about their dads.
Yes. It's completely normal. When I came out, I just felt so at peace and comfortable with myself that I didn't even think about being gay or gay thoughts at all. Just because i was secure with it.