Is it normal this pisses me off? (well alittle).

People drop in and out of ones life.. That's fine.. I'm the kinda guy who likes to step back alittle, i enjoy being alone alot.. Even though i got friends, also a best friend.... I'm the kinda guy who doesn't really "Contact" anyone, but am easily contacted myself.. Be it this guy or that guy, and sometimes i ignore skypecalls and what not for the sake of having complete peace.. Is that bad :O?.

Well to the case... Let's say you meet a friend, and you really get a good friendship going.. Drinking beers together, talking.. Having things in common.. And when you say goodbye you think "This is so rare, to meet someone so much like me".

This was all happening to me, and we don't even talk anymore.. And i could care less since i found out exactly what was going on in the end... he got together with a girl i also talked alot with (School/education place).. Problem for them was they had nothing to talk about, i on the other hand talked alot with both.. He seemed to notice, and i remember once talking with her looking back seeing anger in his eyes which i didn't really think much of.... Until she told me why they broke up.. And that he was jelly because i was able to kick off some funny conversations with her.. I also noticed he didn't ask me if i would like to come out as much during the school breaks, frankly i found him to be erasing me from his existence to some degree.. And then we started drifting away from each other as "Friends/Buddies"... I remember walking right into class talking with some other people, and he sat there alone... I noticed something different, as if he was confused that i didn't sit next to him, talk to him etc etc... But he was the one that started the fire and that was pretty much the end of being "Buddies".

So is it normal that it kinda pisses me off sometimes?.... I found it utterly weird, as if he couldn't stand that i talked with his girlfriend at that time?.. And that was all it took for him to get weird with me and flunk the good vibes..... Sometimes i think he must have been steaming jelly, knowing i was complete at something he was not.. NOT BEING BORING... Boring as in being about as interesting to a girl as a wet carrot that is..

This whole experience made me question if i ever should let myself into a friendship like that again.. And i still think hes a cunt who will ruin relationships because of the jellyness.. Not saying hes a bad guy afterall.. But getting so mad because your so called "Friend" talks with your girl... That is just, weak. So IIN?

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Comments ( 9 )
  • cupcake_wants

    Tell him that she said your penis is the most succulent

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    • AwkwardLemonJuice

      Behahhuhaheha he he hu hu hu .. hi ha hu ha hi ha ha.

      Wait, let me take a break.

      hi hu ha ha hi hu.

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      • cupcake_wants

        lol

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Nice book.
    *powersharts

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    • AwkwardLemonJuice

      Yum

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  • RoseIsabella

    Jealous people like that annoy me, because their stupid insecurities cause them to make all these presumptions about me. As if, ugh... I can't stand it! Folks like that just aren't worth my time and energy.

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  • I'm in a very similar situation.
    I met a girl I became friends with last winter. We hung out a lot and she ended up hooking up with one of my friends who I have known since preschool.
    He was jealous of my friendship with her and forbids her to hang out with me.
    Not only that but he won't hang out with me either.
    I did like the girl when I met her but I lost interest in her quickly because she was unreliable and needy.
    I did get along with her good though and we shared musical talent. I was trying to put together an all female live band to play my songs live at the time but it didn't work out.
    It makes no sense to me at all. It is very insecure when people act like this. I don't see why anyone would put up with this sort of behavior.
    I have not seen either of them in months.

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    • AwkwardLemonJuice

      I feel it.. Good story btw, but it's just kinda odd isn't it?.. Why do people have to be so god damn sensitive about everything... My hatred is only growing bigger and stronger for people like that.. It's basically a "FUCK OFF" because of what?.. Because i talk with another human being?.. I don't get it, i simply dont.

      You meet someone and you both click off well, and it's not "FAKE" in anyway but suddenly it gets smashed because of random stuff.

      Frankly, i don't give a shit about him at all.. He can fuck right off... I'm not into contacting people at all, and i simply don't care.. (Too smug for that LOL).. But i'll tell him hes a CUNT if he ever wants to get in touch again.

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      • Yes, peoples sensitivities can be very annoying. At the same time it's not good to get too upset about it either or you lower yourself to their level.

        In the situation I had with my 2 friends that hooked up I think they are both being stupid. I don't want to deal with their insecurities anyways though so I'm not going to bother contacting them until they want to contact me and apologize. His girlfriend owes me money too. I'm not trying to fuck his girlfriend at all, but I would like to see her so she can pay me back the money I let her borrow last winter.

        I have noticed some guys think other guys are out to screw their girlfriends. I have plenty of female friends and I don't even like dating and have mostly lost interest in sex due to a mix of taking medication that kills my sex drive and I am also sick of dealing with women outside casual friendship.

        I like having female friends to spend time with but at the end of the day I usually don't want to deal with them.

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