Is it normal this makes me feel alittle mad?

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So.. I only have like 2 best friends, like for real.. Friends i drink with, share every story with.. Laugh with the best, problem is we don't hang out too often. One of them is taking an education in another town so... But when we do hang out, get wasted and go on "City adventures" like the droogs we are it's so much fun. (We were like best friends since 6th grade) But i mostly talk with the one of them who still lives where i live.

So to the point, my brother moved back in town and he works as a Cook/Chef in a great restaurant downtown... (Before i continue it's not like im totally "Dull" or "Boring" or anything so don't assume that when i tell you this).

The thing is, he seems to be quite the hotshot between some of the younger (Cooking-Students) & Waiters and what not.. He called me 2 hours ago and said he was going to drink with some of his workmates....

NOW.. Why do i somehow get abit "MAD"?... I don't get it, the only people i want to "Go out" with is my friends... Even though me and my brother love eachother it's just not, that i have the "URGE" to say i'm in.. I want to drink with you guys.

Fact is, i could care less about the people he work with, i have no connection or don't know anything about them at all..

So why is it that i get slightly Mad?... I do not seek popularity, i love to have fun.. Even drink, but i don't go out too often either. Any ideas?

Infact also in (School) i've allways gotten alot of attention because alot of folks think i'm a funny guy.. Fine with me. I'm just a weirdo..

But still, when i have NO.. And probably NOTHING in common with the ones he drink with... Why is it then that i get slightly mad when he calls me to tell me that stuff?..

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I like long stories

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    • Justsomejerk
      10 years ago

      Yeah, this was a good one.

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  • ProseAthlete
    10 years ago

    Your post confused me.

    "My brother's really talented at his somewhat glamorous work. He's going out with his friends who think he's awesome, and he called to tell me so. Now I'm mad because..."

    Are you angry because your brother didn't invite you, or are you angry because he did invite you and you don't like his friends? Are you mad that you don't go out with your friends more often? I literally did not fully understand your post. Maybe I'm just dense tonight.

    If you're mad that your brother didn't invite you, he's being kind of a narcissist for bragging about going out and not inviting you. If you're mad that he *did* invite you and you don't like his friends, get over it; they're his friends, and it was kind of him to invite you even if you weren't into it. If you're mad that you don't go out more, then go out more.

    I think that covers all the possibilities, but if I missed one, let me know.

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    • KaffeInjection
      10 years ago

      I see what you mean.. I think you misunderstood it alittle, sorry i'm abit tipsy havent been for 1 - 2 months now lol...

      Oh the thing is, he actually did invite me to a party at the restauraunt but i said no for different reasons..

      He is not bragging or anything, me and my brother are so true to eacother.. he is almost my best friend, hard to explain...

      Eitherway what im saying is that.. why is it i feel a slight discomfort when he calls the phone and says "im going on a drunk-trip with" and so so... i just dont get it.

      Because i dont know these people, and i dont care about them either.. it's the peopel he works with.. It just makes me wonder..

      Should i say yes the next time he talks about a party at the restauraunt/brewery?..

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