Is it normal this is hurting me?

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This person and I rarely talk like we used to. We do talk, but it's nothing compared to how we used to talk. I have no idea why, I've sat back and thought about it and I can't figure it out. It's hurting me, I feel like I did something wrong or said something I shouldn't have said. They talk to everyone else perfectly fine. It's making me feel like I'm the problem. I miss the way we used to talk, the things we used to talk about, how we used to talk about it. It's just not the same. I don't really have a lot of people I can talk to and at some point this person was special. I know I can go ask them and tell them how I feel but I don't want to, I don't think it would change anything. I want to leave this person alone and wish them the best. Usually I move on fast and let the person be, but this time it's making me feel sad and a little rejected. I want to stop feeling like this. Is it normal this is hurting me so bad? What can I do to make this feeling stop?
I'll appreciate any help.

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    I'm not sure what to suggest. Confronting him might help you to get closure. Then you'd know if you did something wrong and could avoid the same thing in future. There could be many other reasons for his withdrawal. Maybe he's just the type of person who gets bored of people quickly and keeps moving on all the time.
    Just try talking more to other people. It should help to distract you and you might end up making an even better friend.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      On one side I do want to contront him, but I'm afraid he's going to ignore me. It'll make me feel worse.

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      • Chillpill
        12 years ago

        I can understand that, I don't like confrontations, either. How about giving it one last shot or two. Approach him in a friendly way like nothing's changed between you(so as not to make him feel driven into a corner) If you can see that he's no longer interested, then there's nothing you can do but to accept it, probably. Think about it this way: if he lacks the loyalty of a true friend and the balls to admit that something's changed, then what have you really lost? Don't look to yourself for faults, instead try to avoid running into him and seek out pastures new. There are many more potential friends out there. Good luck!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          Thank you so much!

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  • feather0612
    12 years ago

    Maybe his feelings have changed and he senses yours haven't? Sometimes when people become really close and have talks like that they might fall for each other. Is that a possibility?

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  • graphic_nature
    12 years ago

    Is there any sort of reason that you can think of? Is it possible there a new person in their life they are paying attention too and not even realizing you're upset?

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  • Brooklynbabe
    12 years ago

    Maybe u need more interesting topics??

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