Is it normal this girl i'm really into

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There's this girl that I'm currently on the verge of a relationship with. I'm really into her and she's into me but with both of our schedules we really don't have time for a relationship. Now I'm fine with that because we see each other when we can and makeout nonstop lol. we just aren't exclusively bf and gf.
The only thing is that shes a total clubber and goes out almost every weekend. She dances with guys and tons of them hit on her. She even has a lot of guy friends. It's kinda a turn off for me and recently I've been feeling kinda jealous even though I'm not mad or even a jealous guy and since were not in an exclusive relationship, she can do whatever she wants. I think i just have really strong feelings for her. What should I do? Has anyone had this experience before?

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  • WesTwiggs
    12 years ago

    Man, I totally feel for you. If you have to change your schedules to have time for a relationship, if her just being there isn't enough, then maybe you don't really love her. Think about it. I think that soon after talking to her about this problem, you'll realize what you truly feel like for her. For better or worse, good luck bro.

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    Explain the situation to her and maybe ask that she doesn't go out clubbing so much. I wouldn't break up just incase the current situation can keep going until your schedules get a bit freer.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Bluntly, either make time for a proper relationship with her, or accept the current situation, or break up with her. Them's your options.

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