Is it normal the way my mother's boyfriend acts?

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My mother has been in a relationship with this guy for about 6 years. He kinda moved in (my mother didn't tell me, I found out because he kept sleeping over) about a year ago. But recently he has been getting touchy feely and has been saying that he loves me and stuff like he thinks he's my dad when I'm with my dad almost every weekend. (My parents divorced when I was about 6) But now he has started doing this thing where he will sit close to me on the couch and then put his hand on my mid thigh and just leave it there, and he does that in the car also, even if he is driving (he just doesn't sit as close to me). He also has kind of started to pat my butt, and he has done this to my mom a lot, but he now just started doing this to me. Is this a normal thing for someone like him to be doing?

All of it is normal 7
The butt patting is normal 2
The thigh holding is normal 3
None of it is normal 76
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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago | pl

    What a fucking creep! Your mom must be desperately lonely to bring this slimy dirtbag in her house. Have you tried to talk to your mother about this guy? Do you have any relatives that you could stay with? Are you old enough to leave the house yet?

    Sorry to be asking so many questions but this sounds like a very bad situation. Also, I can't help but wonder whether or not this guy and your mother are abusing drugs and alcohol together.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It does not seem normal at all to me. It seems mostly grimey and creepy actually. Do not allow this guy to touch you in ways in which you do not feel comfortable. Stand your ground woman.

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    Wtf not normal.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    Just calmly get up, go into the kitchen, grab a knife and tell him to fuck off

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    • BelleBlue0
      10 years ago

      Can I just say how much I love this comment! I wish I had the balls to do this. :/

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      • shuggy-chan
        10 years ago

        Seriously thou, he needs to be told no, and semi forcefully to get him to stop

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    He wants to have sexual intercourse with you, I think,

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    If my man's daughter told him this, he would probably kill the boyfriend and give the Mom hell for letting the guy move in.

    I would start by moving the guy's hand whenever he touches you, or telling him simply to quit. If he doesn't, tell both of your parents.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Tell someone and tell him to fuck off. He probably won't take this seriously so, what you can do is put on some steal toed combat boots and kick him in the crotch. Alternatively, you can step on his crotch whilst he sleeps. This should really drive the point home, but it may backfire if he is into Cock, Ball, Torture or CBT. Good Luck.

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    10 years ago

    Haha he wants to fuck you.
    Ive never touched someones butt unless I wanted to fuck them. Even if I did it by accident, it would make me want to fuck that person.

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