Is it normal the way i act in a relationship?

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Hi, im 18 female and i can never see myself being in a relationship with one person forever.
Every boyfriend i have seems to get a litrle boring after a while. My current boyfriend however is not boring but he does talk about having babies and living together, its only been 6 months.
The thought of kids makes me sick i love children (when you can give them back).
Bringing a boy into my family life doesnt seem well either.
What is wrong with me?
When i keep my relationships secret it is perfect
But as soon as people find out im involved with someone they put me off and i should not be this easily put off.

HELP

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  • fullhouse
    9 years ago

    I was like that till I was 27! Wait, I am 27 now n still feel the same way. Wait for the correct time, it'll happen gradually, 18 years old n thinking of babies? Your bf must be Really strange

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Fear of commitment.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    you're 18, this is normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Marriage and kids should sound wrong at your age

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  • royalewitcheese
    9 years ago

    Right can everyone stop pointing out my age like am some stupid teenager?
    Yes i know im young i didnt say i wanted kids right now.
    Im saying that the thought of doing it one day doesnt seem natural to me.
    When my boyfriend talks about it it makes me sometimes feel really nice but when im alone thinking about it I feel horrible and want to end everything.

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    • Sog
      9 years ago

      Well, you are some stupid teenager.

      Just because at 18 you can't imagine your future self getting married and having children doesn't mean that you will never change your mind. As you grow your thought process will be entirely different.

      Maybe by the time you reach 25, after college, after you've been in the real world working and paying bills, the idea of settling down for marriage and children will become more acceptable to you.

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      • royalewitcheese
        9 years ago

        Stupid am i? I have my own flat and have been working since 16.
        I have 3 jobs to keep u to a normal lifestyle so dont call me stupid when you have no idea who i am.
        But then thats all this site is full of? Nasty contradicting twats who think just because a girl is young she can't worry about her future and seek some advice.
        My mum wanted a family when she was 6 and got her wish so the fact it repulses me suggests something is going on.

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