Is it normal- the things my boyfriend has been pressuring me to do

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My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for almost a year, and he recently has been acting different. He seems to be horny alot more and he has been pressuring me to do things that I don't feel like doing. A few weeks ago, he came home late from a party with one of his guy friends and he was trying to get me to participate in a three-some. He has also been asking for sex much more than usual, and he has started being really rough with me sexually. I've been really exausted at work and he doesn't seem to understand that. What should I do?

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    12 years ago | pl

    he doesnt care about you if hes pressuring you, and if he want to share you with his friends he really really doesnt care

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    thanks guys, I talked to him about the problem and i broke up with him. Idiots like him don't deserve to be with me or any girl for that matter.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Dump his pathetic ass.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sounds like he's a closet homosexual. Try communicating with him. If he doesn't listen then leave.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Sounds like he's looking an excuse for you to dump him coz he's too cowardly to dump you. Trying to share you with his pal is totally disrespecting you.

    Bin him right this minute and get someone who deserves you!

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Leave that guy, what a dick head.

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  • structuredproduct
    12 years ago

    get rid of him.

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    In my opinion you need to open communication about this. No relationship will ever survive without good communication! There is something you feel very strongly about that he isn't noticing or paying attention to - so you have to ensure that you are heard. You need to get a level-headed reaction from him, too. (So try asking when you're both happy / calm and NOT when he's upset, or sexually aroused! Also try not to bring it up in an argument. That's usually bad.)

    Once you've had a chance to talk with him and really be heard, you can discuss what you want to do about your desires, and his. There may be compromises that work out well for both of you!

    If he doesn't want to listen, or shrugs you off, or doesn't yield - he is not willing to work to be your boyfriend, and you should seriously consider the implications of that. Once you show that you will give in and you won't require he does the same, HE WILL LEARN THAT. And use it. Be careful! Hopefully he will react well and talk, because he cares! :)

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    Submit to him or leave. I think the whole 3some thing is degrading both to you and him if you ask me. Besides that, if you don't satisfy him he might find it elsewhere.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Turn lesbian?

    Young guys have sex on the brain, keep him at bay.

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  • darren3
    12 years ago

    Youvshould do as he says and thank him after. Its your duty

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  • XxKatiexX
    12 years ago

    You shouldn't be having pre marital intercourse anyway...

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    • TareBear20
      12 years ago

      lmao

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  • jims7boner
    10 years ago

    Dump his ass. You can find a nicer guy willing to respect your feelings.

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  • lisalyn
    12 years ago

    Get a new man

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