IIN the # of partners i've had?

thanks. yeah people have proven to be very mean. i never planed being with that many people. it just kinda happened. i am not a slut i dont just sleep with anyone. i am picky and i do have standards. but sometimes i just feel the need to "get laid" how come guys can be with everyone and net be balled names? they get high fives for it. but yet here i am being called a slut. i realize its high but i never asked for name calling.