Is it normal thats i am scared and feeling lost ?

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I lived for 2 years in Canada and now I am going back home . I am really afraid I don't know why I used to live back home for whole of my life, but now I am 26 years and I am feeling lost don't know why ? going back home to wait until I get married ? or going to other country to continue my higher education ? I am thinking that am old actually my culture do and they think that am losing the chances of getting married :\ it may seem strange to you , but I need u answers .

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I suppose it all depends on what your culture is. Is there any way you can stay in Canada? It seems to me that you'd be happier there. Where are you originally from?

    In my humble opinion, a person's relationship status shouldn't be the thing that defines him or her.

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    • Roba
      9 years ago

      I am from middle east , Its quit difficult to stay in Canada because all of my family back there (home) , and u know If am going to stay back home I want to get married cuz I just want ppl to stop thinking about me . Its really hard to explain we have a lot of girls around there 30's they didn't get married but I am afraid I don't my life to be like that . ( alone)

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      • mlbryan44
        9 years ago

        Stay in Canada and become lesbian.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Hmm...that does indeed sound complicated.

        I myself am 44 years old and have been married and divorced twice, so I'm happy to be alone at this point. I basically just work on myself and my issues now. I used to think I could live far away from my family, but I moved close after my first divorce. I've pretty much accepted that I'll be alone in my life since I have no children. Although there is less of a stigma here in the United States, I do get annoyed and anxious talking with certain types of women(and people in general) who seem to think people, especially women, are defined by their relationship status.

        I refuse to believe that my relationship status defines me. I just don't want to deal with people pitying me, thinking I'm weird or trying to set me up on dates, because I'm single and they aren't comfortable with that.

        I figure, at this point, that if it's God's will for me I'll meet that special someone but if not I won't. I'm very grateful that I don't have to cook for or clean up after another person. I couldn't imagine doing the typical wife things for anyone unless he was my soul mate and we had true emotional, intellectual, spiritual and sexual compatibility and intimacy.

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        • Roba
          9 years ago

          I compleltly agree with you , and I hate it tooooo

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  • FireFlower
    9 years ago

    26 isn't actually "too old" to get married.

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    • Roba
      9 years ago

      I don't know its like when I was 23 I was thinking that I am 25 and now when I am 26 I feel that I am 28 . Now its become something in my mind because of ppl around me , but now I start thinking on the same way . I think I am losing the beauty of my age ...

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Personally I think it's dumb when people marry early.
    I don't see how anything good comes from marriage either.

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    • Roba
      9 years ago

      I don't know. sometimes its because of the way of thinking , and ppl around us I think .

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