Is it normal that you want to have sex but you also feel fear ?

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so i been meating this guy i like but i found out he only wants to have sex and have fun.last time he came to my house me and him started having are kissing and touching moments.He said he wanted me to suck his cock i wanted to but i was scared! its the 1st time i would of done it.i want to have sex with him so badly but im scared and shy...plus i dont want him to hurt me or come out pregnet

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    It's completely normal to be afraid of your first time, a little tip though.
    When the moment comes, try to relax. And DON'T get yourself pushed into it. Tell him to be careful, the more stressed out you are, the more it hurts.

    You should also concider taking the birthcontrol pill, condoms will also do.
    If he's only in it for the sex, you might want to reconcider it though. You'll remember this moment forever, and it's best to make it into a happy memory.

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    • blashflashglue
      11 years ago

      i been thinking and you guys are right i have to do it worth someone that atleast cares about me!!!so I'll just give some time!

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      • IrishPotato
        11 years ago

        I'm glad to hear, and I wish you the best of luck ^^.

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    1.: It's normal you want to have sex.
    2.: It's normal to be scared in regard to your first time.
    3.: Condoms not only help against STD's, they also prevent pregnancy.
    4.: If he's just in for fun and sex, you MAY want to reconsider if you want him to be your first. It should, if it can be arranged, be a person that you can think back to with good memories, and not think back and realize he was an asshole that pushed you to do things you weren't actually ready for.
    5.: Well, if you didn't do it, the next time will be your first time to suck cock. If you don't do it again, the time after that...not saying "Just do it", but it may actually save you a lot more tension than going through this process over and over again to just metaphorically speaking "jump into the cold water", and prevent him pushing for more if you are unsure.

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  • fjo5183
    11 years ago

    I thought you already had sex with him because you said you've been "meating" this guy...

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    • blashflashglue
      11 years ago

      we were about too! :/ but he left me on the same day of are date after that day he hasnt talk to me :(

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