Is it normal that you often hate your sexual feelings?

Whereas I’m asexual will never be able to understand the feelings most people get. True I don’t experience “desperation” but I am also unable to have “sexual chemistry” when the stars align with someone.

There are pros and cons to having and not having sexual feelings, you can’t change your sexuality so the only thing to do is embrace it.

Sex certainly complicates everything. Even if you avoid it that can become an issue as well. It's also the reason for why people mistrust friendships with the opposite gender and create jealousy in relationships over nothing. I guess that is because some people don't know how to not try to bang anyone they see, even friends.
But no otherwise I don't see the point of disliking sexuality, not if you're healthy and reasonable about it. Love on the other hand I can understand disliking, I have myself many times. Heartbreak sucks but it happens to everyone in life.

If asexuality was universal, -we- wouldn't exist.

I mean yeah some people hate their feelings but not many and definitely not me. Sex and intimacy makes life worth living for me pretty much lol.

For me sex makes things easier. I can't nessicarily express how I feel in the relationship and having sex with her is a great way of saying "I really fucking love you". It also relieves stress for both of us and I have even used sex as a way to make up after a fight.

“No heartbreaks“
crushing, being in love, Sexuality are three different things for me

How much of this is related to porn addiction though? If you try to cut back and live in reality more, you might realize it's not that big of a deal as they tell you in movies/tv and on the internet.

It’s easy to not let sex rule your life, and finding a partner who also respects the value of sex is a major win.

Personally I have a very low sex drive, I never think about sex when I’m alone, and the mood has to be really right for sex to be on my brain even with my girlfriend, who I am very very deeply in love with, around.

I like sex, sure, but there’s so many other things that I need to get done, or that I need to help others with, that it just doesn’t make it on my priority list.

I think people who let sex rule their lives are a burden on their communities

No I love my sexuality, heartbreak or not.

If we were all asexual, no civilizations would exist.

And no, I do not share your view. Sure heartbreaks suck, but they are a part of life. Lots of stuff suck in life, but the only thing you can do is keep going.

I used to but I came to understand that society is wrong about me and others like me. We are unique and beautiful creatures with a history that extends as far back as mankind and the hate is born puerly from ignorance.

So dont hate yourself cause of your sexuality unless of course it involves hurting others weither man woman child or other without there consent. If it is that then please get help and do not hurt others

What would us sluts do?