Is it normal that women stare at me sometimes?

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So will start off by clarifying that I am not the campus/town playboy, i am not the hottest dude, but i am not the unnactractive nerdy hog either. I will rate myself as the in the middle type of dude. I dont have a magazine cover worthy physice, but I have the looks in a way that even I find hard to figure out. So on a regular basis I will be doing my thing at school
or somewhere and will
always attract women's attention. They would be staring, and when I just happen to gaze over at them( its weird like i would get this feeling to look up at a certain direction, like the evil characters in movies that know you are looking at them and turn to face where you are) and sometimes i will get eye contact, a smile, a blushing face or they will look away as if their life depended on it but a minute later would go back to staring at my direction. So my motive is to know if im somehow im attractive but fail to see it myself, blinded by social stereotypes. also how would i approach one if i like her, in the hopes to start a friendships that leads to a relationship overtime

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    I'm also an average-looking guy, but I don't get any attention for it :(

    How do you dress?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Normal, I dont go for any brands in particular, I dont have a single style. I just wear whatever, as long as it looks good. Some days i will wear jeans and a tshirt, other days i will be lazy and just wear sweat pants/short and a hoodie. I dont even comb my hair, i don't style it or annything, sometimes I do, but i like to save me the hustle everymorning. I guess i just keep myself clean with a great smile and al that attention is possible. Haa and by the way, try to be a little outgoing, like dont be the quiet one, say al least something every fifteen minutes.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Yeh, this happens to me all the time. Usually I catch them staring and then I look over at them and they look away quickly, then I walk over to talk to them, but I guess since they are so embarrassed by being approached by someone as vaunted as I obviously am, they dont say anything and just walk away. Its so hot.

    Then I usually follow them out to their car or back to their house and wait outside it parked at the curb with my binoculars until the cops come. then I usually get a piece of paper in the mail a few days later that says some nonsense about having to stay "100 feet away from said person at all times blah blah blah". Its real hot, I cant get enough of the ones who play hard to get.

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    • purplegirl22
      11 years ago

      So what is is now? 14 restraining orders and 2 more pending? I started laughing it up when you said "I guess since they are so embarrassed by being approached by someone as vaunted as I obviously am, they dont say anything and just walk away". You have got to get yourself an invisible cloak so that they don't have to know that you are always watching.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Well, evidently, they think you're attractive.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I have this done aswell. Although I am branded as a good looking person, I do not see it often. I would say the same as you, just average.

    Some tend to fancy me, and some tend to, as I was recently informed, have this very "dark" aura about me. I don't know why given that I don't talk to many people.

    I remember also when I would be walking and girls infront of me would look at me, then go to their friend "That's him", then smile. I think that was mainly due to me beating the "tough kid" in a fight. So my point here is maybe it has something to do with your looks or with something you have recently done that others have found out about.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I guess its just looks as you said, i never really bring that much attention towards me.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Perhaps a picture to share? Would be more able to tell, then.

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    I stare at me sometimes too when I'm looking at myself in the mirror whilst eating a massive tasty cheeeezzzzz-burger :)

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    • The_Devil
      11 years ago

      Pride and gluttony! I like you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      lmao, i just use the mirrow for personal grooming and to check on my progress at the gym

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    I think you're just hot or you look somehow interesting and you don't know about it. I sometimes stare at at interesting looking guys too (I should stop I know..)

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      Yeah the only evidence I have so far is my eyes. A woman told me once she found them beautiful

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    People stare at me a lot when I go outside naked.

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    • Corleone
      11 years ago

      Pics or it didn't happen

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  • kr24
    11 years ago

    You probably just have a disgustingly huge pimple on the side of your forehead that you haven't noticed yet.

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      I thought the same for a while, but then I was blessed with good genes that prevent acne from forming on my skin. I get that little dot every once in a while, but its always like if it was never there.

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      • purplegirl22
        11 years ago

        Well aren't you the lucky one, some of us are not so "blessed".

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  • TonybigCock
    11 years ago

    So whether you are pretty or not, you will get looks, humans like to look at faces, we are hard wired to recognise faces. I think if they look several times, then either they do find you beautiful or freakish.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    I feel the same sometimes and my girlfriend points it out to me but I am pretty sure it is because I am 6'4 and keep my dress attire clean and neat.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      might be a cause but i dont think it would be a good reason. try chilling with the basketball team and see what happens bro

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      • PapzBSlim
        11 years ago

        When I was on the basketball team I got enough looks just for being on it. I hope you are aware that in every day life, the average male is not this tall. I walk into a classroom or somewhere in public where the Miami Heat aren't hanging out with and I get stares.

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    Do you have strong coloring? Really blonde or red hair with dark skin or light? Friends of mine with strong coloring initially get attention.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      no Im a standard hispanic with blac hair and a light dark skin

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    It could be a dozen things. Perhaps you have charisma? Maybe there's broccoli in your teeth. Who can say?

    The only way you'll know for sure is talking to them and getting to the bottom of it.

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      I will, infact i just met this one girl in my class and well she really got my attention. Her eyes are like magnets to my eyes, i just can't get enough of her eyes(not lie i stalk her, i just enjoy doing group work because thats when i can appreciate her eyes the most.) And also i look at her and find her really attractive in all aspects. Is like when you can really tell someone is different(in a good way) i can safely and confidently say that she might as well be some angel.

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  • Beowulfbrol
    11 years ago

    Try walking up to one..

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      I will, it just happens so often that I sort of got used to it, but yeah i will if I see one that really catches my full attention

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  • o_0
    11 years ago

    have fun man !!many want that.... you should have put your picture
    so that we could tell you whats attractive in you .....

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      Although Im almost 20, I look younger for my age, like 16-17.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    eyes are attracted to beauty of some sort

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    • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
      11 years ago

      A woman told me once that i have great looking eyes. MIne are dark brown, when i was little you would have though my pupil and retina where the same dark color. Nowadays whenever i get the perfect angle with the sun, they sort of glare and this one time the woman saw it and said I reminded her of some kid she fell in love back whe she was young, i was 16 at the time.

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