Is it normal that wife says she does not get horny

Yes. It's normal for women to not want sex, it's a low libido...low desire for sex. It's normal. But sucks for you. You should have talked to her about this before you married. Sex is something a couple needs to feel the same about. She doesnt seem to even care that her sex drive is gone, and if she doesnt care to fix it, u have a problem.

No it's more normal than you think. People just dont admit it. Men and women are the same. We all get bored at some point and the person we are w just doesn't do it for us anymore. I'm not saying that's the case for every relationship. But it's more common than you think.

ITS TOTALLY NORMAL. But there might be something that she's not sharing w you. I know tons of females who show no interest in sex while having a partner. Me for example. I love sex. But I have come to realize I'm not a relationship person. Or I haven't found that person who truly peaks my interest. I am currently in a relationship and could go months w.o sex. Its just eh I can do w.o. Now let me be single and have a new guy come around and it's on. I loose interest quick. Id rather watch porno and help myself out. I feel the need for sex at times w my BF. But usually I just font want to even bother. He is willing to try new things but it just seems a little to late. I have several close female friends that are the same way.

Some women want sex for an emotional connection. They are just as normal as we who get lusty for physical needs and wants. Different yes, but a different type of normal.

I'm often the same.
My boyfriend, for the most part, picks when we have sex (long story) so I'm rarely 'feeling it' when we do.
The thought of sex does nothing for me, it's only when he's riled up that I feel anything. Orgasms to me are mediocre: I enjoy the fact it's a series of complex reactions, and it's kind of pleasurable. But it's like a pinch or a warm bath, just a feeling and it passes, so what?

Your wife isn't weird, just unique in that she feels this way and will admit it.
Not everyone wants sex all the time, some of us value it in small doses, and don't chase it just cause we need to feel good.

You asked for women to answer and that didn't totally happen... I am wondering of it isn't a hormonal problem. Do you know when the last time she saw her OB/GYN was? Do you have children? How old is she? It is quite common for women to experience "phases" or periods of time where sex becomes a non-issue or uninteresting. There are several things you can try. As her partner, she needs your Love, Patience, Support, and Understanding. Sometimes just being together, cuddling and snuggling can lead to sex. Touching and caressing her, telling her she is beautiful and reinforcing all of the reasons you fell in love can help. Giving her some time and space will help too. I would encourage the both of you to see her OB/GYN and discuss this with him/her. Sometimes just taking a little extra hormone pill will do the trick! There are over the counter pills on the market that you could try as well. The best remedy of all is LOVE. Don't get mad at her or give up. :)

I thnk ur wife is completely normal ol she needs r some stuffs that wil help her rise her libido

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I think she is in denial over what an orgasm is. How old is your wife? Most women truly get more sexual in their 30's.

I don't need to be horny to enjoy sex. And I can enjoy sex without having an orgasm. However orgasms can be pretty fucking mind blowing in my experience. Borderline spiritual experience if done properly. To say they hold no value makes me think she doesn't know what they feel like.

Get the book, "guide to getting it on" Every couple should have this book by their bedside.

Is your wife human?! Please don't tell me we've already started marrying robots...

your wife sounds like she's a stone cold wall.
Of course people have sex when they're horny. It's human nature to have that urge. If females don't achieve an orgasm through penetration, sex through penetration still feels good. It's also nice to "connect" and share that special moment with someone.

Women have the same body parts as men.. they're just slightly modified differently... WE LIKE SEX. WE LIKE TO FEEL GOOD. WE ALSO NEED TO RELEASE SOMETIMES.

I believe that woman have every right to decide that they don't want to have sex. Woman are not simply a means for men to pleasure themselves with. If you have a strong connection with your wife, you should be able to discuss ways that you can feel sexually fulfilled, while remaining faithful and maintaining a healthy relationship. Men need sex. We are literally engineered to spread our seed. We feel it well up inside of us like a balloon that needs to be popped. In my opinion, woman should be more accepting of their husband using sex toys or sex dolls to pleasure themselves when they are just not in the mood or have zero desire to have sex. All a man needs to do is get the release and they can stop attacking you with the dick. Your Man will probably perform better when you do finally decide you want to feel him inside you if he has been practicing... just a thought.

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my wife says she doesnt

you are just a bad lover period. i don't mean you have to fuck her brains out i mean you have to know her body better then she does. wen you do that you will MAKE her horny. you have to know how to caress her skin in a way that she fills it tingling that wen you touch her skin with your lips it feels like fire burning deep inside... read a good book on foreplay (it's part of sex and can be an artform by itself wen done right)and experiment slowly

We done ALL get bored at some point. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have sex at least 4 or 5 times a week. As for your situation, I think it's normal. Some girls don't like sex. UNLESS at one point in your relationship she liked having sex thrn suddenly stopped. Thats when you need to have a serious talk. Shitty deal for you though I feel for you man lol.

She probably lies about having orgasms to not upset you so many women do! So if she is not going to orgasm there is no point in sex so that is her excuse to justify it. Saying she isn't horny gets her out of sex that is not doing it for her. So when you do have sex she just focuses on the connection between you two and the love cause that is all she is getting out of it.

Send your wife to me and I will make her horney....Dude infact this proves that u don't have enough testicles to quench her thirst for sex.....Die....

She is lying.

shes ur wife and you still dont know how to maneuver her clitoris?!? wtf is wrong with u?

you need to do 3 things. one, locate her clit. two learn how to use it. three, pull your head out of your ass and quit being a lame lover!

She just doesn't want to give you pussy are you sure she's not banging another dude or chick

Eh, not that normal.. I know that sex drives can go south if women take birth control antidepresents or other medicines. Plus, if you two had a good sex life and it has deteriorated that can be a sign of many things ranging from stress to cheating. I'd suggest going to a doctor or therapist together to help with the issue.

It may be common for women not to like sex, but normal it isn't. Women like Penguin pie need to go see a therapist and get there life straightened out. Put any type of time restraint on sex shows that you do not enjoy it and are doing it as a favor. The mere mention of a time limit to have sex either means you are doing something wrong, or maybe she is just like penguin pie and should go see a therapist, which is more likely. It obviously sound like you love and care about her and with that love sex should be special, not just a physical act to get it over. It is common for women not to understand that, and that is their fault that they do not look for that connection during sex all they do is wait for him to cum and miss out on the emotions and feelings that could be there for them. Good sex is timeless, as long as you feel close and connect who cares about the time. It is unfortunate that womens sexual problems are so common but I will tell you, never listen to someone like penguin pie, because not liking sex will never be "normal".

I hate to say this, but this is far from normal. Your wife should talk to her doctor or seek counseling. Often when I hear of women like this I automatically think of prior sexual abuse.

She gets an orgasm yet she doesnt want sex thats not normal

Am I reading this rite? No sex bc she's horny?? what a dumb broad WTF did u marry her? Sounds like she doesnt wanna fuck u and is comin up w a lame xcuse! read between the lines darling