Is it normal that whenever i see a girl i like, i automatically think.
I automatically fantasize of us going out, getting married, and having a baby. But then reality slaps me in the face and I go nowhere.
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I automatically fantasize of us going out, getting married, and having a baby. But then reality slaps me in the face and I go nowhere.
Yep, normal. But you should work on it. Also forgot about those things when you meet a girl. You might develop expectations about her that she never wishes to fill.
Yep. I do that too. I picture us having an apartment, talking in bed at night, coming back from work, doing nasty things in the car... This kind of thing :) I don't even mind if it doesn't happen, imagining these things make me happy :)And who knows, maybe someday our dreams will come true! haha. I think you're just like me. You want to be close to someone, be a team with them :)
Simple solution would be just going up to her and saying 'Hi'. Get some friends that would push you to do that, or just follow the "Fuck It" attitude - drop all your insecurities and just do it:)
Since you have nothing to lose, why not try to arrange a scenario where you can ask her to join you and some friends out for the evening? My suggestion would be a comedy club.
Lots of laughs and no chance for that awkward first date conversation.
You my friend have an over active imagination. But that is a good thing!,
How does it work?Is it like a cutscene with you and this girl doing the same things?