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all he wants to talk about is sex??Every time I talk to my boyfriend he always wants either me to send nudes or talk dirty and all that. I have never had a conversation after we started dating that didn't involve sex is this normal??
I cannot imagine a guy repeatedly asking me to send him nudes without me asking if I can slit his throat.
Yes I am going to say dump him. He is a pervert and just wants to fuck you. I am speaking from experience. I had a boyfriend like this and he well he attempted to rape in the movie. So do not encourage him do not give him pics and try not to talk dirty to much if you encourage it might end very badly. This made me become very cold to most of my boyfriends. You should watch yourself and I would suggest cut him off. I have met dozens of men like this and they are just looking to get laid and they will take it from anyone.
It seriously seems like he sees you as an object. My boyfriend and I bonded through video games and sex as well, but he respects me and we only talk about sex if we're about to get it on. If your boyfriends not connecting with you on an intellectual level somethings not quite right. Besides, I find a boy trying to get nudes and stuff all the time to be very disrespectful. He really doesn't try to talk to you? What a loser, you deserve better.
I dated a guy like that. He honestly and sincerely loved me and I know that he still does love me, but he just constantly had sex on his mind and to him, it wasn't wrong to bring it up.
I would suggest that you have a talk with him about this. There are some guys that have a very high libido and your boyfriend may be one of them. He probably thinks that this is totally acceptable, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then he should know this. I'm sure he does not want to offend you.
However, if the foundation of your relationship is built upon sex (as in, you two had sex within a few days of knowing each other, and the majority of what you share together is sexual), then it is to be expected. Just like how two people that met through mountain biking and bond through mountain biking will talk a lot about mountain biking.
This isnt normal at all, the only guys that have treated me this way are horny friends. My Boyfriend has much more respect for me than that, and your boyfriend should respect you too. Plus it is illegal to send nude pics and could use them against you if you guys ever failed. So hopefully your not dumb enough to actually send him these pictures because they could end up anywhere for anyone to see even your closest friends. Or maybe your employer?
Tell him that this makes you feel a bit uncomfortable, he isn't neccesarily a jerk or anything (Although this MAY be the case), but it's also possible he has a high libido.
NeuroNeptunian is absolutely right by the way, if it's the foundation of the relationship then well...you know the rest.
Goodluck on the whole matter though, I really hope it's merely his libido.
Soyeah, talk to him about it (: