Is it normal that when a guys kisses you then he backs up for a while

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Me and this guy are from 2 different worlds hes the sterotypical "spanish" guy around his friends but not really like that around me and I'm in the punk/goth/emo click. Well, We kissed and did all the romantic stuff and whatever. But afterwords he like ignored me at school most of the time and didnt talk to me and then did and it like goes on and off between months. I am getting really confused,I think hes just a player but my friend said do this so yea. What the heck is going on? and is that normal?

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  • StuckInMyHead
    13 years ago

    He's just not that into you.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    He probably likes you but is embarrassed of the way you dress, or thinks you aren't "popular" enough for him. Find someone who is less of a retard to date and forget this douchebag.

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    • pixie_dust
      12 years ago

      well said

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  • Steve2.0
    8 years ago

    Maybe you should cut yourself like all of the other emo kids.

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  • danh34me
    12 years ago

    I did this same thing to a girl for quite sometime,a couple of years. I was just testing the waters to see if she was really in to me, she was and we eventually got together and had about a six year relationship, which ended back in 1995 and we havent seen or spoken to each other since and she never trusted me the entire relationship,so yah move on,youre apparently a hot little goth chick and who now isnt into that. or if youre really into this guy next time you see him in front of all his bros in school you could slam against a locker and jam your tounge down his throut, then all his buddies would be like "damn essay whos that fine little huchy mamma"

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    He doesn't want you find a new guy

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    its not that normal but i mean maybe he isnt that into you. try finding another guy.

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  • firefly88
    13 years ago

    ignoring a girl after he kisses her is a polite way of telling the girl that he doesn't want to pursue anything with her, for whatever reason. he is just not that interested. it's easier to ignore her than to tell her to her face the brutal honest truth.

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago

    I had a boyfriend like this once. We had a good relationship it's just that our friends weren't friends so we didn't chill at school together much.

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  • ledhead
    13 years ago

    hes a player like your friend said.... hes not into you enough to hang out with you around his friends.

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago

    you need a mento,plus spanish guys cant commit to anything.

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago

    Maybe you're too awesome for his stupid small brain to handle. Psssst punk/emo chicks are so hot I think *wink*.

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  • CaramelChrissy
    13 years ago

    Yeah he isn't into you. Maybe when he kissed you he realised you weren't for him. Find a new guy.

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