Is it normal that we wanna get back together?

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So my ex and i started talking around November 2017. we talked for a bit before starting to date aroung Feb 2018. Shit hit the fan on my side with my family and I broke up with her. We stopped talking for a bit but drifted back to each other. We still care for each other. I love her a lot and we always picture spending the rest of our lives together... Recently we started talking more and flirting and yeah... so should I ask her out? Strong possibility she will say yes. Because she asked me what I wanted I told her..."YOU" and her response was you already have me... SOS

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Your post is vague for me to form any real opinions, or make any judgements. I always say an ex is an ex for a reason. So I really want to know is what is your reason, why did you break up with your ex? What is this shit that has hit the proverbial fan of which you speak? Without knowing these things I can't make any intelligent judgments about your situation.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      My aunt threatened to out me to my mum. And threatened me. I was scared to be disowned and that is why I broke it off. Because I was more or less a coward.

      I hope this helps

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago

        So come out to your mother. It's who you are. If she really loves you she'll understand. Take the power away from your shitty aunt.

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        • SwickDinging
          4 years ago

          This is good advice.

          Don't live in fear, just be yourself. It will be hard at first but in the long run you will be much happier.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            4 years ago

            Thank you. I hope I will be happy in the long run.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Thank you so much. This is really encouraging

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        Threatened to out you about what, about being gay?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          yeah...

          My mum is homophobic and so is most of my family. So what my aunt did was threaten to out me. causing me to be scared and to back out of the relationship

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            Well, that sucks! I'm sorry this happened to you. I don't see any problem with ya'll getting back to together, and trying to give it a go again. Are you living somewhere safe now?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              Yeah. I went off for uni in another country so it is pretty safe. but I still gotta keep it on the dl.

              Thanks. I think we will.

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    If you want.

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  • Mrown
    4 years ago

    get back with her, also fuck your bitch ass aunt

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Thank you

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    What I would do is get back with her and then try not to have your parents find out for as long as possible. Then when they do you should be old enough to stand alone. How old are you? That would really be nice to know in terms of me helping you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I am 20 but I rely on my mum for fees and all.
      I am working really hard and saving this way I can move out immediately after uni.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Good idea. Keep saving up money.

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  • Primus
    4 years ago

    Do so in secret, and if your aunt catches you, beat her to the punch and out yourself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      thank you so much for your advice <3

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    You're both gals? Are you gonna open up a cute little shop in some indie hipster town?

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    • GaelicPotato
      4 years ago

      Probably.

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