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My girl & I have been together for 5 years and have never had a fight. Almost all of my friends in relationships fight regularly & thinks it's weird that we don't.
We are just really passive & move on when we get frustrated. We disagree on a lot but just dont fight about it.
neither do me and my partner argue, so from my point of view it's entirely normal. :)
It’s normal in the 15 years my mom and step-dad have been married they have never fought. Except in the first few months. That’s pretty good for 15 years. They just talk things out.
I wish my girlfriend was like that, I can just drop things and move on but my girlfriend can't, it's as if she likes fighting with me we have been together for nearly two years as well now
I think its totally healthy to fight occasionally if my boyfriend and I never fight and get our feelings and emotionally I'd be a little worried
Do you at least discuss anything when you are frustrated? Even healthy relationships have an occasional argument now and then. Its great if can discuss issues without anger, but if you don't say anything at all, a relationship can fall faster than you can say "What happened?". Fighting all the time is a bad sign too, but not saying anything is worse.
It all depends on what you consider fighting.
For me, a fight consists of being angry with each other and not talking for a little bit - until everyone calms down enough to talk.
Other people consider fighting to be yelling and screaming and throwing things.
My parents almost never fight with each other. And even when they do, they always forgive each other. They have been married for 32 years.
If you don't fight from time to time it will end faster since there is no emotional between you.. Im not saying it's good but fighting in the right times can even make ur relation better.
A reporter once interviewed a 110 year old man for a local parer:
Reporter: What it your secret to such longevity?
Old man: I never argue
Reporter: Well that can't be the only reason!
Old man: You must be right
:-)
As long as you guys tell each other when you have a problem and openly communicate it shouldn't be a problem :)
Very cool, good for you. I guess it's normal. My husband and I don't really fight or argue, we agree to disagree! Sounds like you have an above average relationship. What's your secret? Lol!