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Me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 weeks :) things are good. well most things are :/ you see the thing is we cuddle and kiss but weve never made out and it gets awkward when i want to. are things going to slow??
You go at your own pace, and don't listen to the pressures of society telling you that you should of done "something" by a certain point. Whether it takes a week, a month or a year go at a pace that both you and your boyfriend are comfortable with. If you want to make out with him, just wait until you're alone and get close to him physically. He should understand and go along with it if he wants to, if he doesn't want to then you'll just have to wait for him. Relationships are all about compromise, after all.
He probably wants to also and is a bit shy! You should probably make the first move instead of him even if it does feel a bit awkward. Give him a long lingering kiss on the lips he should be able to take the hint and want more. But about going too slow? No...not really kinda. Think about it has been four weeks and it all depends how much time you really spend together each week. No matter what though it's true to go at your own pace.