Is it normal that to love a person who cant marry u

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hi i am diya im 22yrs old.. today i am here to share my story.i hope i can get a solution.i am happily in love since 3yrs my boy friend who used to love me a lot took a decision not marry me now because he want his sister to get married before him problem is that she is studying now and she needs at least 4 yrs of time to get married and my parents wont allow me to wait for 4years.but i love him so truely.is it normall to love a guy who said he cant marry me now every one around me are saying that he just used you but i cant beleive that pls help me what should i do.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I have a feeling you are not of American culture?

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    1- Why the hell is he waiting for his sister to get married first.
    2- Your 22 and you shouldn't have to ask your parents permission to do what you want.

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  • Crazyperson2
    8 years ago

    Good grief wait the four years!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    you watch too much zee tv and star plus get a hobby

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  • Failedcasanova
    12 years ago

    I have yet to hear a positive post. In my personal opinion it does sound like he is playing games and i dont believe in playing games because all it accomplishes is that somebody gets hurt and misused. Your only 22 live life,explore and have fun. As far as your parents are concerned im sure they have your best interesta in mind but you dont need their permission.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yea, you don't know what love is at all. "I love him so truely" truly.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    you are both making this decision soooo here's the feeling of regret for the rest of your life! :-(

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    I agree with Darkoil...

    1) Why does he have to wait for her?
    In my mind that just sounds like he's making up an excuse to push you away without owning up to the fact that HE just doesn't want to marry you.

    2) Your parents won't let you wait?

    Are you still living at home? Are they forcing you to marry someone else?

    Or... are they telling you not to waste 4 years of your life waiting for him to pull his head out of his @$$?

    I mean what MAN makes his woman wait FOUR years... just so his sister can get married first?

    I suspect they are thinking what I am thinking... that if you wait 4 years you'll be 26 and he'll think of another excuse why you can't get married.

    It may hurt to think of life without him but, if he's really "the one" then he wouldn't be playing games with you.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Good heavens you are only 22!!!

    Why are you even thinking of getting married? At least wait until your brain is fully developed at 25! You haven't met enough people yet to decide if this is the one for you.

    Chill out. If you're going to live with him for the next 60+ years, waiting another 4 years is nothing, and you'll be 26! If you go out together 7 years and still want to marry him then you should be with the right one!

    Tell your parents that you don't want to be stuck with someone so young.

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