Is it normal that this made me cry?

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I am 17, male, engaged to an amazing girl, living on my own, and working through college. (Yes I'm serious I worked hard to get where I am.)
And yet, even though I thought I had been a very upstanding strong young man, I haven't cried in at least 2 years, last being when I lost my girlfriend in a car accident, which I felt I have coped with.

Somehow just moments ago, Season 5: Episode 15 of Scrubs, a doctor Cox lost several patients at once, and somehow, this caused a breakdown. An uncontrollable sad one. Which I am now neutral again. I feel no better, no worse. I don't understand. Comments please. v_v

I am a 17 year old cry baby. 10
I am entirely normal and this is good. 57
I am entirely normal and this is bad. 9
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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Personally, I don't understand how anybody could enjoy that show...

    But you seem to be doing excellent in your life. Much better than I am. I'm 20 and living/depending on my dad to help me through college. I'm sorry about your loss. Some people just tend to keep things bottled up inside, so I understand what you are saying about not ever crying and then having a breakdown over something that seems so minor and unsuspected. I think that is normal. Have you ever sought counseling?

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  • squirtle
    12 years ago

    i don't think it's normal that you're 17 and engaged..

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    • cookiesaregreat
      12 years ago

      My thoughts exactly xD

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    Dont worry real men also cry.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    I'm gonna cry that ur 17 and engaged. You poor bastard. You're whole life ahead of you and you wanna choose ur one flavor of ice cream to eat the rest of ur life! YOUR LIFE! LLLLIIIIIIFFFE!!!!

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    10 years ago

    The fact that you're 17, engaged and living on your own is more abnormal than crying watching a sad show

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  • 800imawesome
    11 years ago

    Real men cry. Posers dont. Keep those tears flowing, it feels better than holding em in.

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  • Store2100
    12 years ago

    I think its normal, you bond with the caracters strongly, so that was sad for you because you had such a bond, and when you havent cryed for 2 years, you are most likely gonna cry in near future

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  • iSc0tt
    12 years ago

    Oh thank you wise sir.

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  • GuessWho
    12 years ago

    Sure you can cry, but choose something better to cry about.

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    Sure, maybe you had an emotional day or, for some reason, you needed to cry and those tears were just behind a dam that was about to break, Scubs being the catalyst.

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  • iSc0tt
    12 years ago

    I have but haven't found much time for appointments. I'm in class now. v_v

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So? I haven't cried in more than half a decade, along with a million other people. It's actually very stupid and immature to get engaged at that age, 100% Guaranteed divorce. Not crying isn't your problem, it's lack of a brain.

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