Is it normal that this is really difficult?

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I'll try to make a long story short. I have a best friend and we've known each other for almost 4 years. Almost a year and a half ago we started dating. Before we started dating I could tell him everything. Shortly afterwards, it started to become difficult to talk about problems going on in my life with him. When I try to talk to him about it I always have a difficult time saying what I need to say and always put up a fight before telling him what is wrong. I really care about him and I don't know why it is so difficult for me to talk to him. I want to change this, but I don't know how to. Is it normal? Any ideas on why it might be so difficult and how I can make it a little bit easier?

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    I can relate to it somehow. I have mentioned a guy in my own story. He was a very good friend. But then he got interested in being 'more than a friend' and i wasnt up for it at that time,and so he started backing off -which has annoyed me like hell because im no more comfortable to talk to him even though i want to so much.
    I think even if u trust this guy with all your heart and you think high of him, still you shouldnt and cant tell him 'everything' because now he's your bf and not just a friend.. A friend wouldnt judge u (in my opinion) but a boyfriend could. :)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Can't understand this - unless you're afraid of him judging you...

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  • Luis0307
    12 years ago

    It's difficult because now he's your bf and you can't tell him everything, unless u really trust him and he's not a jealous guy...?

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